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Topic: Communication
tanyaann's photo
Sat 11/28/09 05:51 PM
Where is it? Why can't people seems to have open and honest communication? Don't people realize that it is better to speak the truth to begin with then to tell a lie to 'spare' their feelings?


This is the topic tonight.... let's discuss!

Mayhem_J's photo
Sat 11/28/09 05:54 PM
Its because people are to worried what others think of them.

ledi180's photo
Sat 11/28/09 05:55 PM
Me and my latest had open and honest communication and it's why we're still on speaking terms altho ex's. It IS so very important to ANY successful relationship be it a work one, a friendship or a romance. flowerforyou

It seems easier for some to tell stories rather than tell the truth. It's a crying shame. devil

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 11/28/09 05:56 PM
Anytime I try to communicate , I'm usually disappointed by the results.

krupa's photo
Sat 11/28/09 05:57 PM
The truth is....I want you to wear a skimpy french maid's outfit to bring me a beer before you use me as your flesh toy.

How is that for open communication?

tanyaann's photo
Sat 11/28/09 05:58 PM

Its because people are to worried what others think of them.


I think that's part of it.




patsfan, diappointed how?





That's good, krupa! I have no doubt that you are speaking the truth! :wink:

no photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:05 PM
Some people suck at communication. And then you have those who think people are mind readers.

tanyaann's photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:07 PM

And then you have those who think people are mind readers.


Still lack of communication! ohwell

no photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:08 PM


And then you have those who think people are mind readers.


Still lack of communication! ohwell


I know, but I'm saying they think others should be able to figure them out, so they don't have to exert themselves, it's pretty weird.

cherie091279's photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:11 PM
I spent many years with a man that I didn't communicate with. I didn't realize at first how important communication is in a relationship. This is a lesson I have learned and won't make this mistake again.

tanyaann's photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:12 PM

I spent many years with a man that I didn't communicate with. I didn't realize at first how important communication is in a relationship. This is a lesson I have learned and won't make this mistake again.


:thumbsup:

no photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:12 PM

Where is it? Why can't people seems to have open and honest communication? Don't people realize that it is better to speak the truth to begin with then to tell a lie to 'spare' their feelings?


This is the topic tonight.... let's discuss!
Well,...I think alot of what goes on out here in the dating world obvious but sometimes we just want to ignore...Thinking either that can not happen to me or...what not...I think for a many of the younger men they does this so they can get some. Others just really are not sure what they want. And yes I do beleive in honesty.....I think it also important to let your new interest know about your baggage as soon as possible and appropriate.

manda_x3's photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:16 PM
I completely agree. Everyone should just speak their minds, no matter how harsh, ugly or horrible it may be. If the person you tell this to is still standing there-- they are worth it. Only a true coward walks away when you spill your heart out in honesty.

tongue2

tanyaann's photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:16 PM


Where is it? Why can't people seems to have open and honest communication? Don't people realize that it is better to speak the truth to begin with then to tell a lie to 'spare' their feelings?


This is the topic tonight.... let's discuss!
Well,...I think alot of what goes on out here in the dating world obvious but sometimes we just want to ignore...Thinking either that can not happen to me or...what not...I think for a many of the younger men they does this so they can get some. Others just really are not sure what they want. And yes I do beleive in honesty.....I think it also important to let your new interest know about your baggage as soon as possible and appropriate.


I think there is just something wrong with 'not knowing what you what'...

I think that's just code for 'I know what I want, but it's not you, but I don't want to be alone'... or 'but I'll take what I can get now'... or 'I just want to get laid'.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:25 PM

Where is it? Why can't people seems to have open and honest communication? Don't people realize that it is better to speak the truth to begin with then to tell a lie to 'spare' their feelings?


This is the topic tonight.... let's discuss!


Open, honest communication??

You haven't talked to me enough to know that there are times when I am MUCH better off not saying what comes to mind...lmao

tanyaann's photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:26 PM


Where is it? Why can't people seems to have open and honest communication? Don't people realize that it is better to speak the truth to begin with then to tell a lie to 'spare' their feelings?


This is the topic tonight.... let's discuss!


Open, honest communication??

You haven't talked to me enough to know that there are times when I am MUCH better off not saying what comes to mind...lmao


laugh :tongue:

no photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:27 PM


Where is it? Why can't people seems to have open and honest communication? Don't people realize that it is better to speak the truth to begin with then to tell a lie to 'spare' their feelings?


This is the topic tonight.... let's discuss!


Open, honest communication??

You haven't talked to me enough to know that there are times when I am MUCH better off not saying what comes to mind...lmao


tongue2

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:30 PM



Where is it? Why can't people seems to have open and honest communication? Don't people realize that it is better to speak the truth to begin with then to tell a lie to 'spare' their feelings?


This is the topic tonight.... let's discuss!


Open, honest communication??

You haven't talked to me enough to know that there are times when I am MUCH better off not saying what comes to mind...lmao


tongue2


You, however, HAVE talked to me quite a bit. So you already KNOW. LMAO

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:30 PM
I'll listen, I'll talk...my best relationships are those where there is a good open communication line. I have a great open line with my boys. Have always been strait up with them, never sugar coat anything with them. For the ages they are and to still come to their mom with the stuff they do...
I think I did something right.

no photo
Sat 11/28/09 06:31 PM




Where is it? Why can't people seems to have open and honest communication? Don't people realize that it is better to speak the truth to begin with then to tell a lie to 'spare' their feelings?


This is the topic tonight.... let's discuss!


Open, honest communication??

You haven't talked to me enough to know that there are times when I am MUCH better off not saying what comes to mind...lmao


tongue2


You, however, HAVE talked to me quite a bit. So you already KNOW. LMAO


You're one of the few people who can actually agree to disagree, so you're cool.drinker

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