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Topic: Keep it real.
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Mon 03/08/10 06:23 AM

It seems most of you are trying to mold the man.


That's been my experience, too. They want a guy with a pre-cut hole in his back where they can insert a steering wheel and make him go wherever they want him to go. If you're not cardboard cutout domesticated animal/sitcom daddy, you have to be assimilated.


Listed was about twenty things to be. Most of what she was looking for contradicted the others. Stop trying to change people and change yourself. Don't make someone adapt.

That'a pure wrong and headed for trouble.



I've found that most people don't even really say what they want, they just list a bunch of general, cliched things that they think will make them sound good. "I want an intelligent guy" never means "I want an intelligent guy." It means "I want a stupid, easily-led guy who will fall in line with whatever I want."

Law of Opposites.





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Mon 03/08/10 08:05 AM
Edited by wolfchic on Mon 03/08/10 08:07 AM
This is so cofusing.slaphead slaphead
What is the BIG dael about what people want in a relationship??
Read thair profile,If it is not for you,simply move on!!It does not affect us anyway.

As far as wemon wanting to control men.Are you so afraid that you may find one that will be able too?? Ya know that is not such a bad thing with the person you love and loves you back. I am still wondering why anyone puts up a profile if they not ready to start a new relationship?

If we keep up all the BLOCKS,noone will ever get through.
And that people is on us.Not someones profile,look,prefrances or the other person in anyway!! frustrated frustrated whoa

J.M.O

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Mon 03/08/10 12:32 PM


It seems most of you are trying to mold the man.


That's been my experience, too. They want a guy with a pre-cut hole in his back where they can insert a steering wheel and make him go wherever they want him to go. If you're not cardboard cutout domesticated animal/sitcom daddy, you have to be assimilated.


Listed was about twenty things to be. Most of what she was looking for contradicted the others. Stop trying to change people and change yourself. Don't make someone adapt.

That'a pure wrong and headed for trouble.



I've found that most people don't even really say what they want, they just list a bunch of general, cliched things that they think will make them sound good. "I want an intelligent guy" never means "I want an intelligent guy." It means "I want a stupid, easily-led guy who will fall in line with whatever I want."

Law of Opposites.



Perhaps for some people that's true. But when I say I want an intelligent guy, that's actually what I want. The stupid guys who just agree with everything we want get boring very quickly.

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Mon 03/08/10 12:55 PM



It seems most of you are trying to mold the man.


That's been my experience, too. They want a guy with a pre-cut hole in his back where they can insert a steering wheel and make him go wherever they want him to go. If you're not cardboard cutout domesticated animal/sitcom daddy, you have to be assimilated.


Listed was about twenty things to be. Most of what she was looking for contradicted the others. Stop trying to change people and change yourself. Don't make someone adapt.

That'a pure wrong and headed for trouble.





I've found that most people don't even really say what they want, they just list a bunch of general, cliched things that they think will make them sound good. "I want an intelligent guy" never means "I want an intelligent guy." It means "I want a stupid, easily-led guy who will fall in line with whatever I want."

Law of Opposites.



Perhaps for some people that's true. But when I say I want an intelligent guy, that's actually what I want. The stupid guys who just agree with everything we want get boring very quickly.




drinks Beleive us,we are not looking for a puppy that minds real well.:banana:

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