Well its a late I can't sleep. My kids are visiting their dad for
Father's Day. I miss them and wish we didn't have to be seperated to see
us both. Is that normal? I know its for the best, but I just get my head
to stop turning.

Hi Macona, welcome to the site!!

Sorry your sad... I'm sure it's hard.
what is it you want to do, go with them??

Even when my daughter is gone to my sister's I miss her.
It's worse if their young..

Yes very young both not even 6 yet but in a way i do want to go w/ them
but then i know its going to be fights and arguments tyhat the kids
really shouldn't see

my ex has been the only man i have ever been with. he was my high school
sweetheart and i am really scared now on what i am going to do. i never
really dated and so on so its is all new to me. its not like high school
lol

Sorry I wandered off on you, lemme look at your pro. I
know you went to bed, I said G'nite in gypsy's thread.

yes- it is normal!!
I go through the same thing..
the minute my kiddos leave..i miss them.
they are like my best friends.

Yea it's not a good idea to fight around the kids.
Maybe in time you guys will get along better & you can or work on
getting back together..
Or by that time you might not want to either..

check on the net for things in your area like single parents, maybe a
church group, there are so many differnt kinds now adays. your in
college now? see what they have..

& don't rush it!!
You'll know when your ready to meet somebody..
Good Luck to you, your a beautiful gurl,
No Worries you can do it.