I have this friend named Brittany who is apparently jealous of me and my girlfriend Brianna (we've been together for six months now). Brittany and I were good friends at one point, but that wore off after a while. Now, Brittany and her boyfriend recently broke up, but when they were still together, she expressed jealousy. Now, Brittany made it perfectly clear that she just wanted to be friends with me. She wanted nothing more than to be friends, even though she may have said some things to suggest more at one point. Nonetheless, we talked about it and I moved on. Anyway, the last time I told Brittany that I was happy with Brianna and told her that I have a g/f now, Brittany said, "Oh, like the relationship will last long anyway." Also, she was talking to my friend and she was like, "How is Johnny and his fat g/f? Oh, just kidding" Now, my g/f is on the heavier side, but that has nothing to do with this.

I remember the first time Brittany and I met and how excited and nervous she was. She said that I was an amazing guy, but she had a boyfriend and told me that she never wanted more than to be friends with me.

We even went to the movies once (while she was still with her boyfriend) and we were cuddling and she was rubbing my hand and I was holding her and rubbing her stomach and back. However, at the movies, she didn't want to kiss me when I made a move. She just shook her head and said that we couldn't kiss because we just met. When I got home, I was heated and couldn't understand these mixed signals so I flipped out. She said she wanted to be more than friends but not anymore because I am psycho and that I live too close to her, so she would find out that I'm cheating if we ever did get together (yes, bull****, I know).

She obviously doesn't want me, yet had no problem cuddling and us touching each other at the movies.

With that said, even though she does not want to be more than friends with me and had a boyfriend at one point who she adored, why is she still jealous of me and my girlfriend? Attention?

Because silly, she does have feelings for you. Sometimes ya just can't help the girl. No really, she likes you and can't help that she does. She prob truly wanted to be faithful to her then BF. Seems she had chemistry with YOU. Let her be and, move on. She'll get over it.

My question is.... if you are in a relationship, why are you worried about this?

And why would you be friends with someone who doesn't appear to be supportive of you?

I just hate loose ends and we are still friends, though I haven't talked to her in months and miss her friendship, even if we couldn't be more. The last time we talked she said that she was really happy for me, and said, "that my psycho *** needed somebody." I really don't understand her. It is such an uncomfortable feeling having someone as a friend who put me threw this emotional roller coaster.

Wow,If you are happy with your girlfriend now.Just let it go.
Good Luck!