i was 18 and there was a guy that i was living with along with his parents and wernt together that long. but any how the last time i had seen or even talked to him was 25yrs ago.. (ages ago)

well any how he has been on my mind over the years just to see how he has been doing..
and i found this one website where it even states what year a person had died..

well any how i typed in his dads name first as to find out his dad died about 8 years ago or so.. which i found interesting for i heard yrs ago that his mom had cancer and far as i know in what i have came across on the sites she still alive..

but any how i had a feeling i should check the jails
and guess what hes there.. he was admited in there oct 29th 2010
i guess it had something to do with contempt to court, that explain why his bail is so low

i called the jail and thats what they told me
and i got the address so im writing him a letter and im going to mail it off..

im sure thats going to be a huge suprise

Thats a good gesture that not many would share nor would they embrace so strongly these days.. good job

That's nice queen!!

my ex is in prison and I have tried everything to have a life without him & it just doesn't work! I went and saw him on Saturday after nearly 5 years and we have both changed so much, but that bond is still there and just as strong so mebbe we should consider a different approach! I'm not ready for us to jump back into anything, but I can handle writing him and visiting him occasionally since he's only an hour from me! So close and yet so far away

may not be the same time frame but it sure feels like it.. 1 month without my ex feels like an eternity.. i still care about her but im taking that energy and focusing if into my new relationship

Letting him go and getting a divorce was a very tough, but I trusted in my heart that if it is meant to be then we would get a second chance! I tried to make another relationship work for 4 years-no luck!
Sweet guy, but after 4 years I still couldn't see marriage in our future and was tired of dealing with the many issues for something that isn't worth it!

Now I am enjoying my solo time and excited to see how I grow from here!
I would enjoy finding friendship again with the ex hubby and maybe we will get that second chance someday, but there is no need to rush it! A lot of people think I should just stay away from him. I've pushed to the top of the ladder in academia and he is a convict so it could totally never work right? I don't think many people experience this type of bond & he could be satan himself and I would still care about him!

hope it works out with the new girl for you

thanks firefly

while very nice very genuine in your posts, do you think it is fair to the other person to enter a relationship while still feeling love for another woman?

I would be angry to find that out if I were her. just to be honest. I guess some women could deal with but not me

Last night I dug your picture out from our old dresser drawer
I set it on the table and I talked to it till four
I read some old love letters right up till the break of dawn
Yeah, I've been sittin' alone diggin' up bones
Then I went through the jewelry and I found our wedding rings
I put mine on my finger and I gave yours a fling
Across this lonely bedroom of our recent broken home
Yeah, tonight I'm sittin' alone diggin' up bones
Exhuming things that's better left alone
I'm resurrecting mem'ries of a love that's dead and gone
Yeah, tonight I'm sittin' aloneDiggin' up bones
Then I went through the closet and I found some things in there
Like that pretty negligee that I bought you to wear
And I recalled how good you looked each time you had it on
Yeah, tonight I'm sittin' alone diggin' up bones