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Topic: D&R Begining rules?
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Wed 11/03/10 08:57 AM

is it against the rules to kiss on the first date even if you both feel that strong connection? how about deep kissing on the second date?


There are rules about kissing? huh

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Wed 11/03/10 09:19 AM
IMO....anyone who has "rules" are not really looking for a relationship. If a person is into the one-night/one-time thang, OK, but don't expect more. If a person is looking for a relationship, then there are NO RULES...just take things as they come.
An individual MAY have THEIR own rules in their head about what they want/don't want, but that's where those rules should stay, in their head.
bigsmile

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Wed 11/03/10 07:12 PM
Nyko calm down!! Why should you need to justify, If it felt right then go with it. ITs not like you forced the girl (you didn't right?)
So enjoy the new relationship and see where it goes. If it bather you talk to her about it, and see how she feels . Like "Listen I really like you and don't want you to think I was pushing myself on you the other night, are we Ok?"

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Wed 11/03/10 11:30 PM

Nyko calm down!! Why should you need to justify, If it felt right then go with it. ITs not like you forced the girl (you didn't right?)
So enjoy the new relationship and see where it goes. If it bather you talk to her about it, and see how she feels . Like "Listen I really like you and don't want you to think I was pushing myself on you the other night, are we Ok?"


Kinda funny about that one.. she was the more forcefull 1.. lol i may have leaned into her to start it (she went with it) but then she got more into it lol

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Wed 11/03/10 11:30 PM

IMO....anyone who has "rules" are not really looking for a relationship. If a person is into the one-night/one-time thang, OK, but don't expect more. If a person is looking for a relationship, then there are NO RULES...just take things as they come.
An individual MAY have THEIR own rules in their head about what they want/don't want, but that's where those rules should stay, in their head.
bigsmile


thank you.. tyhis is probably the best 1 yet

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Wed 11/03/10 11:31 PM


is it against the rules to kiss on the first date even if you both feel that strong connection? how about deep kissing on the second date?


There are rules about kissing? huh


read the whole forum...

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Wed 11/03/10 11:32 PM


no need to get all twisted...you asked a question and you received answers. did i miss the part where you stated that you only cared to see the ones that help you justify your actions?

i really don't see where anyone could have offended you anyway.

look, there is no one true answer to this. people do what they feel is right for the situation they are in, if you now feel that you may have moved too quickly, chances are that you have...




this.


agreed <<<< with klc

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