Topic: Tryin Again
Searchin4you2's photo
Wed 09/28/11 04:08 AM
Going to try again.smile2 Seems like most of the men I meet on here tell me that distance is a factor, my age scares them away (which it's just a number and not your state of mind or how you think, feel and act), or they pull you into a web and strike when you're vulnerable and turn out to be some kind of scammer (have learned a lot about this after being scammed once before). So would like you to rate my profile and let me know. Thank you.winking

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Wed 09/28/11 05:48 AM
welcome to mingle. first thing i would say is that if you don't want to make an issue of something, then don't make it an issue. since age is not a problem for you, don't mention it in your profile. stick to the fun, flirty things you enjoy. pictures draw attention from men, so maybe change to a few different poses. i would also suggest you utilize the forums. find some topics that interest you and post away, show everyone your wonderful character. on a scale of one to ten (one being it's just a number and ten being let me brake out my abacus) i would rate your profile as one you could count on

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Wed 09/28/11 05:56 AM
Your profile is a good start. Just work on writing more about yourself.

Don't try to convince people that age is just a number. Age does mean something to some and you won't be able to talk them out of that.

Welcome to the site!

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Wed 09/28/11 06:05 AM
I think You have a good profile and I also agree not to make age an issue!! If someone is interested in you, age wouldnt be a factor!!!! Just join the forums and get to know folks!!!flowerforyou

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Wed 09/28/11 06:14 AM
Edited by carold on Wed 09/28/11 06:16 AM
Don't worry be who you are so you'll find what you want. How young do you want them? I date up too 5 years younger. But have went out on a date 10 years younger just found him not mature enough. But I do like a little younger. I find your profile up front and honest. There will always be scammers once you've fallin for it you'll figure them out quick now. Enjoy the forums come visit us in the 50's and over threads too.flowerforyou

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Wed 09/28/11 06:51 AM
You have a good profile but you should answer the question about smoking. It means more to some than age. Join in the forums and you will start to meet people quickly. By getting known, you will expose yourself to more possible matches.

Welcome to mingle.!

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Wed 09/28/11 08:46 AM
I think you have a very good profile..good luck!

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Wed 09/28/11 11:54 AM
Welcome to Mingle.

Your profile is fine!

Something which I've learnt is not to go looking too hard, as you will probably just disappoint yourself more. It's better to be more social, make friends & then if somebody nice comes along your way, that will make a nice surprise for you. It's difficult to just wait, so being online, going out more & doing the regular things... 1 day it will pay off. That's what I hope for too :wink:

Good luck, we all need it bigsmile

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Thu 09/29/11 08:57 AM
smile2 waving I want to thank all of you that replied to my request and will take the thing out about my age. Cos came to realize after your comments if they can't accept me the way I am then it's not meant to be. So thank you once again and wish all of you the best of luck!!!