I'm new to all of this. Never had a problem getting a guy, just always have a problem with only finding a** holes. I'm looking for a family man. Someone who is a great dad, a great man to be a husband, and a mature guy to deal with situations the way they should be dealt with. I DON'T like guys with anger issues. I refuse to have a guy like that. I also like my man to be able to have fun and be a little childish with me sometimes if we feel like it. I need that guy that I'm proud to introduce to my family and someone who is perfect enough to be the father to my son, Blake. My son is the most important person in the world to me, and regardless of whether I find the right guy on here or not, he'll always be first in my life. Let me know who is interested and give me some reasons why you think you'd be best for me. I am very set on what kind of man I want and I plan to NEVER lower my standards.

Btw. I'm not trying to be like high maintenance or bitchy or anything like that. I just want to give my son the best father he can get and too many guys have promised me that they were that good dad and they just weren't. They pretended to be for a week or two, then they decided to stop giving a crud. :/ I just really don't want that anymore. I want someone who can live up to my standards as a father, even if they can't be the perfect boyfriend to me...

good luck to you.

hope you find what you're looking for.


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Hey Bekkah,
Good luck with what you are looking for..

I think that if you find someone who canlove both of you , you will be set, but mostly find someone who you can love, being a great Dad is really important but finding the man who you can love with all your heart is really special, for you and your son

Bummer hate it when i double post

Right on! Fantastic post! I'm very proud of you for being so upfront and honest. I think you come across great. Hope some good guys stop by and say hi.

Grand luck in your search. Welcome to the site.