Topic: mutual match?
tara48's photo
Sun 12/11/11 05:40 AM
I dont get why they...the men...sign in saying they want to match with you,,,send you a hello and then arent active in their profiles. Im in the second ''fun'' stage in my life and cant seem to get guys to come aboard?...Life is tooo short for a ''wait and see'' attitude...especially at my age, lol....I dont want to IM, i want to talk in realtime Darnit!!, :)....anyways, im done venting now....have a great day all, :)

tara48's photo
Sun 12/11/11 06:33 AM
no, they dont de-activate, :) they are just never online, :) I thought the point of being on here was to meet ppl, but noone is ever online.

pankajsharma172's photo
Sun 12/11/11 06:35 AM
Hi could we become frnds.

vivian2981's photo
Sun 12/11/11 06:55 AM

no, they dont de-activate, :) they are just never online, :) I thought the point of being on here was to meet ppl, but noone is ever online.



Welcomeflowerforyou

Maybe they are in stealth mode.. a lot of people do that...

Optomistic69's photo
Sun 12/11/11 06:59 AM

I dont get why they...the men...sign in saying they want to match with you,,,send you a hello and then arent active in their profiles. Im in the second ''fun'' stage in my life and cant seem to get guys to come aboard?...Life is tooo short for a ''wait and see'' attitude...especially at my age, lol....I dont want to IM, i want to talk in realtime Darnit!!, :)....anyways, im done venting now....have a great day all, :)


Can one change their age be deed poll.

If I reverse my age I could match with you and I live on heredrinker

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 12/11/11 02:56 PM

I dont get why they...the men...sign in saying they want to match with you,,,send you a hello and then arent active in their profiles. Im in the second ''fun'' stage in my life and cant seem to get guys to come aboard?...Life is tooo short for a ''wait and see'' attitude...especially at my age, lol....I dont want to IM, i want to talk in realtime Darnit!!, :)....anyways, im done venting now....have a great day all, :)


Haha....I'm laughing only because I can relate. I have no idea why men do what they do. I have had at least half a dozen experiences with guys on this site where they email me first and then I write back and....nothing.

Wait....I just read that back to myself and I guess it's obviously whatever I wrote they didn't like. frown

tara48's photo
Mon 12/12/11 10:50 AM
I know eh....it just seems like its becoming a waste of time

prashant01's photo
Mon 12/12/11 11:11 AM

I know eh....it just seems like its becoming a waste of time

bigsmile
Seems in much hurry??

I believe,mingle don't work that way.

You will get to know individuals well through forums only,though may seem slow first it saves time ultimately by avoiding rejection & reworklaugh laugh laugh

All the bestflowerforyou

pyxxie13's photo
Mon 12/12/11 12:18 PM
I agree with prash. This isn't speed dating. Go into the forums and let yourself be known. Have to give this some time. Good luck either way. I have not had the problem of no one responding when I email back. Then again..I am in the forums a lot.laugh