thank you;) thats what im saying exactly i like knowing when it's one sided and when there is mutual connection ..but at the same time it's really hard to determine that nowadays ....but i want to weed out those one sided situations and i do that ...idk but i only bother with a woman when im interested ...but it isn't always so much the other way around ....i think guys are better at being honest and sincere ...idk maybe i should let her come to me at least that shows interest and some sincerity....seems like the guys are going the extra mile to find our match and proof our devotion ...and girls have eyes for looks and idk it's like were supposed to look past their looks and like them for them...well i don't see it being done in return...guess i need to really amp up my standards thats what this is telling me and that i need to set some pre qualifications for them to meet ...im a very great guy and i think my qualities are rare and make me quite a catch ...and if that makes me superior im not sorry for being it im me and im not going to put up a ******** story so what she sees in my pics is what she gets ...and me is all i know how to be ...maybe i should also learn some patience i guess lol didn't think of myself as impatient but .....time will tell i will see who can measure up i cant be just throwing my time away ...i should make them earn it

well i will clear that up of course sex is not meaningless none of it is meaningless fun-but my center focus here was that texting and bs was meaningless if it leads no where ...thats not fun thats nothing but im applying here that im open for it and if it leads to more great .i think the debate here is who is honestly being themselves and the degree of agreement seems a little in question ...then again it is no secret that some people have very little to no reason at all why they come on dating sites claiming they are looking for someone...as another person said actions speak louder than words i agree completely but if a girl wants something to do with me shes going to prove it to me cause talk is cheap and i don't waste my time