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Topic: I could use a glimpse into the female mind
EasygoingReader's photo
Wed 08/14/13 09:44 PM
Hey y'all!

I just made an account today. I filled out my profile how I thought was best but I'd love some other (preferably female) view points - anything to improve my profile as well as learn.

A few things I could definitely use a second opinion on:

- Are my profile pictures appropriate?
- Am I putting too much / too little information?
- Is it the wrong kind of information?

Thanks and any advice would be appreciated!

no photo
Wed 08/14/13 09:51 PM
Just checked out your profile... I'd say it is just fine. The pics show a little about you and your interests and it is nice to see that you actually filled out the questions. Most people leave everything blank and just say "just ask." That's annoying.

Best of luck on finding some cool people to hang out with! =)

EasygoingReader's photo
Wed 08/14/13 10:28 PM
Well that's good to hear. Thanks for taking the time to check and comment!

dharrah's photo
Wed 08/14/13 11:16 PM
I agree you did a good job..

EasygoingReader's photo
Thu 08/15/13 12:22 AM
Awesome, thank you!

jaded72's photo
Thu 08/15/13 01:25 AM
Welcome to mingle!
Your profile is appropriate. You may want to change the "where are you from" section to reflect where you are living (you mention UBC) so that people in your area can actually search for you.

Also, consider using pictures of just you in your profile. I prefer seeing just pictures of the individual person- less confusing-, and maybe your friends would not like to have pictures of themselves posted publicly? Just some things to consider. happy

Happy Mingling!flowerforyou

teadipper's photo
Thu 08/15/13 05:30 AM
I think it's a great profile.

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Thu 08/15/13 06:45 AM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Thu 08/15/13 06:46 AM

Hey y'all!

I just made an account today. I filled out my profile how I thought was best but I'd love some other (preferably female) view points - anything to improve my profile as well as learn.

A few things I could definitely use a second opinion on:

- Are my profile pictures appropriate?
- Am I putting too much / too little information?
- Is it the wrong kind of information?

Thanks and any advice would be appreciated!


I was more interested in the header about the glimpse into the female mind? Where does that fit in? Have you seen those tower cases that are clear or partially clear? I was kind of thinking of getting a plexiglass implant in my skull to give you a glimpse of the female mind ....:wink: flowerforyou


welcome to mingle:angel: I will also check out the profile in bit

no photo
Thu 08/15/13 06:47 AM
flowerforyou

no photo
Thu 08/15/13 07:02 AM
:thumbsup: OK, you're 19. It's a good profile but I think your main photo should be jsut you ESPECIALLY because you are looking for casual. Dad and grandpa are totally cute and look like great folks, but the ladies will think you wanna get married when your main photo has dad and granpa standing there. The only way we can tell who YOU are is by the age in your profile. Keep the family on the profile but make your main photo you....and keep your shirt on. :)


:thumbsup: really good profile tho'.....you are honest about wha =t you want and the fact that you are pretty busy at this time.

missyshadow's photo
Thu 08/15/13 12:27 PM
ugh ew you like instant noodles?! gross haha iv eaten nothing but them for a week waiting on my paycheck lol. Other then that seem cool :p


EasygoingReader's photo
Thu 08/15/13 01:20 PM

Welcome to mingle!
Your profile is appropriate. You may want to change the "where are you from" section to reflect where you are living (you mention UBC) so that people in your area can actually search for you.

Also, consider using pictures of just you in your profile. I prefer seeing just pictures of the individual person- less confusing-, and maybe your friends would not like to have pictures of themselves posted publicly? Just some things to consider. happy

Happy Mingling!flowerforyou


I do go to UBC but I live in Toronto (and I come back for the summer and Christmas). And that's quite understandable. Thanks for the advice!

EasygoingReader's photo
Thu 08/15/13 01:30 PM
Edited by EasygoingReader on Thu 08/15/13 01:31 PM

I think it's a great profile.


Thank you :)


I was more interested in the header about the glimpse into the female mind? Where does that fit in? Have you seen those tower cases that are clear or partially clear? I was kind of thinking of getting a plexiglass implant in my skull to give you a glimpse of the female mind ....:wink: flowerforyou


welcome to mingle:angel: I will also check out the profile in bit


Hahaha this actually made me laugh out loud! True, that would be quite an interesting study but I was referring to the mind psychologically (as you probably already know :P)


OK, you're 19. It's a good profile but I think your main photo should be jsut you ESPECIALLY because you are looking for casual. Dad and grandpa are totally cute and look like great folks, but the ladies will think you wanna get married when your main photo has dad and granpa standing there. The only way we can tell who YOU are is by the age in your profile. Keep the family on the profile but make your main photo you....and keep your shirt on. :)


thumbsup really good profile tho'.....you are honest about wha =t you want and the fact that you are pretty busy at this time.


Awesome, thanks for the constructive criticism. I've changed it to another pic. Haha the no-shirt is kind of a given... I think it makes the poster seem too self-centred. As for the honesty, I don't have anything to lose by it and I definitely don't want to give women the wrong impression and waste their time.

no photo
Thu 08/15/13 07:00 PM
Ah!! You're a wise young man!! Give feedback on this site please, to the older men (who often show their chest, or don't say enough).

My favorite thing about your profile is your little playful bits. You show a good sense of humour and a great sense of confidence. Very attractive qualities.

My favorite thing to see in a man's picture is a close up of him smiling. I'm a sucker for a man with a great smile and kind eyes.

Your profile is terrific!

EasygoingReader's photo
Thu 08/15/13 09:10 PM

Ah!! You're a wise young man!! Give feedback on this site please, to the older men (who often show their chest, or don't say enough).

My favorite thing about your profile is your little playful bits. You show a good sense of humour and a great sense of confidence. Very attractive qualities.

My favorite thing to see in a man's picture is a close up of him smiling. I'm a sucker for a man with a great smile and kind eyes.

Your profile is terrific!


Haha that's great to hear! Thanks a ton for the feedback. And fair enough, I shall try and share my ideas/opinions to the other guys on this site.

no photo
Thu 08/15/13 10:03 PM


I think it's a great profile.


Thank you :)


I was more interested in the header about the glimpse into the female mind? Where does that fit in? Have you seen those tower cases that are clear or partially clear? I was kind of thinking of getting a plexiglass implant in my skull to give you a glimpse of the female mind ....:wink: flowerforyou


welcome to mingle:angel: I will also check out the profile in bit


Hahaha this actually made me laugh out loud! True, that would be quite an interesting study but I was referring to the mind psychologically (as you probably already know :P)


OK, you're 19. It's a good profile but I think your main photo should be jsut you ESPECIALLY because you are looking for casual. Dad and grandpa are totally cute and look like great folks, but the ladies will think you wanna get married when your main photo has dad and granpa standing there. The only way we can tell who YOU are is by the age in your profile. Keep the family on the profile but make your main photo you....and keep your shirt on. :)


thumbsup really good profile tho'.....you are honest about wha =t you want and the fact that you are pretty busy at this time.


Awesome, thanks for the constructive criticism. I've changed it to another pic. Haha the no-shirt is kind of a given... I think it makes the poster seem too self-centred. As for the honesty, I don't have anything to lose by it and I definitely don't want to give women the wrong impression and waste their time.


like the new pic! but I can't afford the skull implant surgery...sorry...lol

so it's good your wanting another viewlaugh

good luck to yawaving

EasygoingReader's photo
Fri 08/16/13 06:41 AM
Edited by EasygoingReader on Fri 08/16/13 06:41 AM

like the new pic! but I can't afford the skull implant surgery...sorry...lol

so it's good your wanting another viewlaugh

good luck to yawaving


It's all good, I appreciate the thought ;)

Thanks and same to you!

1Cynderella's photo
Fri 08/16/13 06:55 AM
I think your profile is very nice actually. It's not complicated, nor too mysterious.

Your photos show some of your interests and personality as does your written profile.

Some might say what you wrote is on the short side, yet it is not the least evasive.

I think you've created a brief yet friendly invitation to chat with a pleasant and intelligent young man.

Good job. I've no doubt you will gain many positive responses. flowerforyou

Welcome to Mingle. Participating in the forums is the fastest and easiest way to get to know people and discover friendships. We'll hope to see you here. :thumbsup:

EasygoingReader's photo
Fri 08/16/13 10:04 AM

I think your profile is very nice actually. It's not complicated, nor too mysterious.

Your photos show some of your interests and personality as does your written profile.

Some might say what you wrote is on the short side, yet it is not the least evasive.

I think you've created a brief yet friendly invitation to chat with a pleasant and intelligent young man.

Good job. I've no doubt you will gain many positive responses. flowerforyou

Welcome to Mingle. Participating in the forums is the fastest and easiest way to get to know people and discover friendships. We'll hope to see you here. :thumbsup:


Thanks for the positive feedback!

I just checked out your profile too and I have to say that it's great! I wish most women my age had one like yours. It seems like you've put the right amount of detail and you've got a wonderful sense of humour too. And since you're not looking to date, the lack of you in profile pictures isn't a problem

And yes, I will be joining in the rest of the forums too :)

1Cynderella's photo
Fri 08/16/13 12:45 PM


I think your profile is very nice actually. It's not complicated, nor too mysterious.

Your photos show some of your interests and personality as does your written profile.

Some might say what you wrote is on the short side, yet it is not the least evasive.

I think you've created a brief yet friendly invitation to chat with a pleasant and intelligent young man.

Good job. I've no doubt you will gain many positive responses. flowerforyou

Welcome to Mingle. Participating in the forums is the fastest and easiest way to get to know people and discover friendships. We'll hope to see you here. :thumbsup:


Thanks for the positive feedback!

I just checked out your profile too and I have to say that it's great! I wish most women my age had one like yours. It seems like you've put the right amount of detail and you've got a wonderful sense of humour too. And since you're not looking to date, the lack of you in profile pictures isn't a problem

And yes, I will be joining in the rest of the forums too :)


Well, thank you very much and I will look forward to seeing you about Mingle town then. :thumbsup:

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