Many of you know that my dad passed away in June, it was exactly two months ago yesterday and that had to of been one of the worst days so far.
You see, my uncle is suing us for everything that brings in income so that if we lose that income then we also lose our house. Yesterday he came onto my property and took an old car and god only knows what else..(the car was sitting in the driveway of a rental my dad owned. His garage that is owned by my grandparents is right beside it)
The car was my dads favorite thing in the world and even though he had a brand new truck he LOVED it...but in all honesty it was a rusted piece of junk that couldnt pass inspection because the bottom is falling out.

My uncle took it and had access to the garages that hold all of my dads other things including countless tools, battery operated model airplanes that he built himself...etc.

I called my grandparents (I havent talked to them for over two months) and nicely asked where the car went and she told me that its none of my business because the business owned it. The business my dad created ALONE and my uncle took over..
I then nicely told her that my dads things were in that car and until we had proof of ownership it had to be returned.
She then said "I dont understand what is wrong with you people."

What is wrong with me? THEY ARE TAKING EVERYTHING MY DAD OWNS.
If they in fact own that POS car then fine...take off the insurance and get it away..but prove you own it and let me get my dads things out of it.

Its so unfair. It really is. & Then my grandfather called back and said "You people are amazing, so nice. I should send you a card, nice people deserve cards."
It really hurts me when they treat me like this. I love them, I do...At night I have freakin dreams of telling them how much I love them and it seems so freakin real but when I wake up they are idiots and screw me over daily.

Should I have my uncle and his crew arrested for coming on to my property to take my dads things? They've been warned before...I just do not know what actions to take. My mom won't let me do anything shes basically given up..everything she tells me is "Call the lawyer!" but the man doesnt even call us back. Its sad. It really is.

Life blows.

Oh, man...this sucks.

I could be wrong, but somehow I don't think you are really looking for suggestions. I'm really sorry you have to go through all of this.

Hang in there.

Call the police on the Uncle- He is tresspassing if it is your home.

No one should be taking anything until all details are settled.
I have a hard time with vulchers- just taking...

Tell your Grandparents you love them...
Let them know you would like to have some momentos of your Fathers to keep...


Good luck to you dear...

just a sugesstion
find out who the car is regestered to
good luck and god bless

I'm so sorry, I have no idea how to handle this but I'll keep you in my prayers!

Thanks guys. I really appreciate the support.

Things got worse today and we had to involve the police.
The company swears they own the car but I don’t care about that…I care about what was inside and I care about the fact that they only took the car so they could drop it off in some junkyard for it to be scrapped. The police now know about that though and they are going to pursue the stolen police issued bullets that were inside that car.

As for telling my Pap and Nana that I love them… I can’t. After what they said to me today I don’t think I have any love in my body for these people anymore. They are making me so effin crazy. I tried to explain to them today that I lost my best friend and I wake up every morning thinking that he is just away…it honestly has not set in that he is actually gone. I cannot grieve the loss of him because I am worrying about everything they are putting me through.


Sorry for bringing this to the boards. I just don't have anyone else to talk with and it gets kinda tough keeping it all in.