Topic: extramarital affair
vineet7's photo
Fri 09/11/15 05:44 AM
Absolutely not Tia! But one must know his/her limits. This is the answer you must have received from majority!Frankly, it is not easy to even set these limits. It is easy to say that i don't need physical gratification but it does not work that way. If one is looking for only emotional support, why get involved with the opposite sex? An extra-marital affair always puts ones marriage at stake! Can't one have good friends with the same sex? It is the physical attraction which is at play. Also, any relationship involves two people. A person who is married may look for only emotional support. But what about the other person? In reality, it is almost impossible to find someone from the opposite sex who can fill the void from a bad marriage with a sexual relationship. Extra-marital affairs which actually work come as a package which includes both emotional support & sexual satisfaction.

LovablePeter's photo
Tue 09/15/15 10:54 AM

Tia extra marital affair exists because of sexual needs thats a diffrent thing people try to hide this fact with silly reasons he dosent have time, he dont care etc.

In 99 % cases it is because of sexual needs and now a daya this ratio is growing very fast. It is with both male and female.

So move on is the only thing to avoid consiquences do what ever you want but it ahould be secrete for ever.

This is very much true.

LovablePeter's photo
Tue 09/15/15 10:56 AM

Absolutely not Tia! But one must know his/her limits. This is the answer you must have received from majority!Frankly, it is not easy to even set these limits. It is easy to say that i don't need physical gratification but it does not work that way. If one is looking for only emotional support, why get involved with the opposite sex? An extra-marital affair always puts ones marriage at stake! Can't one have good friends with the same sex? It is the physical attraction which is at play. Also, any relationship involves two people. A person who is married may look for only emotional support. But what about the other person? In reality, it is almost impossible to find someone from the opposite sex who can fill the void from a bad marriage with a sexual relationship. Extra-marital affairs which actually work come as a package which includes both emotional support & sexual satisfaction.

Yes.I know women who are having extramarital affairs, they are very much happy because they get emotional support as well as sexual gratification

LovablePeter's photo
Tue 09/15/15 10:58 AM

Tia!!!
please !!Give another chance to your partner!!!
start once more from the starting...express your problems to your partner and if.....
your partner dont try to understand your feelings...doesnt support you!!!
you can have extra marital affair!!!

at least you would havethe chance to think for you....that you had tried as you could......
its just a suggesion.....
if you agree !!! try this....
hope everything will be allright for you!!!

Wants her to beg him ha ha ha

LovablePeter's photo
Tue 09/15/15 11:00 AM


Y all men and women lies each other and doubt on their life partner. The mentality of men and women is changing each day. Where the world going on? All are thinking, will my life partner should good. But nobody won't think, what my life partner wants. Open sharing and open talk is the better way to make it good. I like to live with my girl as my good friend. I think the friendship in life won't create a huge problem..may be will, but i am sure there will be a solution for that after an open talk. This is what i am looking for...


What if your partner is not ready to talk? What if you partner just does not shares with you anything? What if you keep talking in front of your partner and he/she keeps sitting silent and in the last would say.. anything else?

Great. Preachers listen to her....Your preaching exhibits your inexperience

LovablePeter's photo
Tue 09/15/15 11:02 AM


The sufferer alone knows where the shoe pinches. It's not right for others to say it is not right! In fact, extramarital affairs are increasing because many find a loveless marital life unbearable and society insensitively insists you bear with it! No one expects to live in an earthly heaven, but at least one wants to live outside of a suffocating hell.

Absolutely true.. only the sufferer knows.. wat z the feel...

Go ahead Tia U need to punish him that way only but be secretive as u r living in Indian society

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Wed 09/16/15 08:03 AM
Edited by Simplyshyam on Wed 09/16/15 08:10 AM
u should not ask it as all of them are incl. me are here to mingle with some one.

coming to xtra marital affair....u should not make simple things into complex situations....its ur belief that makes the relation strong....never think a person is right or wrong...think about urself.." am i thinking right?" then u will have ur answer.

A psychological point..

A person who depends on other's suggestions,will not take their suggestion.Instead he/she matches the suggestion to the decision by default he/she made it.

Simply...no ifs no buts.....just go with ur heart...not with ur brain.

ufff...I talked alot...:)

anshikadevgan's photo
Wed 09/30/15 05:04 AM
every person has a right to b happy..so why not? on the downside the pressures, the guilt and the fear of hurting ur loved ones and ultimately the social shame..
if u cn handle that, u r on.

speaking from experience and the above is tru fr guys and girls both..

so cheers n enjoy

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Wed 10/07/15 11:58 AM
I read ur views abt ectra marital....if really loking for some solution then u can reach me at yahoo delhiboy010184...i m also facing same problm

vineet7's photo
Thu 10/08/15 12:40 AM
a4allen, you are so very right! How does a married women find a guy who will only provide emotional support? If the guys are young, they are looking to experiment. Married women are the easiest targets. No young guy would be interested in a long term relationship with married women for obvious reasons. As for a married man, if the guy was so patient, nice & loving that he can provide good emotional support, his marriage would have been intact and he wouldn't be looking for another married women. 99.9% guys are looking for sexual gratification and if they get what they want, they may extend emotional support. A married women if clearly states that she will never have a physical relationship outside marriage, will fail to find any guys. The guys who still go for such a lady are either overconfident that they will be able to change the lady over time or are desperate to have some opposite sex in their lives & have no other options available to them or are happy even with adult chatting (if the lady agrees to the same)/ normal chatting to kill / pass time. I think sex is a part & parcel of such relationships. Any one who disagree's may please answer a simple question: Why does a married woman only needs a guy for emotional support? Can't she have a good friend of the same sex who can provide whatever support she requires?

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Thu 10/08/15 03:48 PM
its just about happiness....

Myboy1985's photo
Fri 10/09/15 06:30 AM
Thx William.. n thku srbrocker


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Sat 10/10/15 07:56 AM
Hi Tia,

i think, you should certainly explore who this new frnd is .... but i think the catch is - not to cross a certain boundary. I think this boundary is something each one can find for themselves, a true feeling from heart. Though this may sound stupid this is wat the scriptures repeatedly reinstate- "follow your heart only " . I am sure you will out of dis-stress and find peace of mind.... the actual goal for in every endeavor.


best of luck...

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Wed 10/14/15 02:30 AM
Edited by rockingraj7 on Wed 10/14/15 02:34 AM
I hate to stay ideal even for 10 mins. I love to speak to strangers, specifically girls. You can say "I am a VASU". But still do speak with the real feeling of a person. Would like to server some happiness to your worry. Find some lady to whom i can make happy for anything.

aarav011's photo
Sat 10/24/15 09:34 PM
Tia can I get your email Id please.... So that we can talk there.... And I promise it'll be a nice talk there

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Mon 11/02/15 07:21 PM
it's okay for extra marital affair
as far as u are into discreet and NSA stuff as there will be no commitments money and relationship wise :-) happy affairing!

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Wed 11/11/15 11:06 AM
Yes, provided you get the right kind of friend. Okay about extra-marital affair? Reserve my opinion about that.

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Wed 11/11/15 11:51 PM
'Men: sex for love; Women: love for sex' is the eternal truth. If you can strike a bargain between the two, guess you're on! Sigh!

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Sun 02/14/16 07:58 AM
nice

1nitish's photo
Fri 02/19/16 04:17 AM
What should we do..??
To support or not to the anti-indians in our india..?:angry: