Topic: Is It Too Much To Ask?
wxmann's photo
Thu 11/28/13 07:05 AM
Is it too much to ask for a current picture of someone your chatting with? I like seeing a gal in a more relax kind of garment every once in a while. I think they look absolutely gorgeous. They obviously don't think they look or feel beautiful. Whether that is some big easy fitting hooded (or regular) sweatshirt, or a t-shirt barely tucked in or maybe a nice silky looking baggy blouse.

I for one get tired of snug fitted heavy clothing all the time. Have to do to the work environment. Granted it's not fashionably in style. But then again I don't give a hoot what is fashionable. I wear what I want to wear. Not what the fashion police say I should or must wear.

I asked that with two women I am (or should I say was)chatting with via text & email. "Oh, I can't do that". Why not? It makes me feel that the woman I'm chatting with isn't who she says she is. I like seeing photos of the person I am talking with, someone whom I am going to meet up with someday soon as it add validity. I would like to know what she looks like. I sent pictures of myself, doing various activities. Why can't she send me pictures of herself? Inside or out doing things. Why is this a one way street? I'm honest about myself, revealing my identity in photos. Why can't she do the same?

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Thu 11/28/13 11:44 AM
What was her reason for why she can't do that? Is her camera broken? Does she not have a webcam? Does she like looking like she's going out 24 hours a day? Sounds weird and a bit shady to me....maybe those aren't really her pics and she knows if she takes new ones you'll know she lied?

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Thu 11/28/13 12:16 PM
Man, if you're contacting women that won't post pictures you're really scraping the bottom of the barrel.

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Thu 11/28/13 08:52 PM
if we want to make photos available they will be on our profiles. only scammers ask for photos on offsite email


so those requests amke u suspect.

may be they have no intention of ever meeting u....

teebee79's photo
Fri 11/29/13 05:26 AM
Personally I immediately delete anyone who asks for more photos other than,what's on my profile! It makes me think he's a perv.

teebee79's photo
Fri 11/29/13 05:26 AM
PS. In close.. Yes. It is TOO much to ask

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Fri 11/29/13 05:51 AM
Are they refusing to post a picture of themselves, or refusing to take a picture of themselves wearing the clothing you described that you prefer?

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Fri 11/29/13 06:06 AM
Edited by Leigh2154 on Fri 11/29/13 06:08 AM

Is it too much to ask for a current picture of someone your chatting with? I like seeing a gal in a more relax kind of garment every once in a while. I think they look absolutely gorgeous. They obviously don't think they look or feel beautiful. Whether that is some big easy fitting hooded (or regular) sweatshirt, or a t-shirt barely tucked in or maybe a nice silky looking baggy blouse.

I for one get tired of snug fitted heavy clothing all the time. Have to do to the work environment. Granted it's not fashionably in style. But then again I don't give a hoot what is fashionable. I wear what I want to wear. Not what the fashion police say I should or must wear.

I asked that with two women I am (or should I say was)chatting with via text & email. "Oh, I can't do that". Why not? It makes me feel that the woman I'm chatting with isn't who she says she is. I like seeing photos of the person I am talking with, someone whom I am going to meet up with someday soon as it add validity. I would like to know what she looks like. I sent pictures of myself, doing various activities. Why can't she send me pictures of herself? Inside or out doing things. Why is this a one way street? I'm honest about myself, revealing my identity in photos. Why can't she do the same?


When you sent pictures of yourself "doing various activities", did you send them because the ladies asked or did you send them in the hopes they would follow your lead?...You sound as if your are not willing to meet someone until or unless you can confirm they look and act a certain way....This is cyber, no guarantees, no warranties....They only way your are really going to know is to get out from behind that screen and meet the people you are corresponding with....Then, if you don't like the cloths they are wearing,slaphead just cross them off your list and look for someone wearing bib overalls next time...

wxmann's photo
Fri 11/29/13 03:42 PM

Are they refusing to post a picture of themselves, or refusing to take a picture of themselves wearing the clothing you described that you prefer?


Refusing to take any photo of themselves sitting or doing something. I'm not asking allot of pics, just one every once in a while. I don't send lots of pics of myself either.

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Fri 11/29/13 03:46 PM


Are they refusing to post a picture of themselves, or refusing to take a picture of themselves wearing the clothing you described that you prefer?


Refusing to take any photo of themselves sitting or doing something. I'm not asking allot of pics, just one every once in a while. I don't send lots of pics of myself either.


Are you checking to see if they're real or you just want to see them in different clothes/environments? If it's the latter, I'm not sure how I'd feel about that, being told to take pics of myself on command. It might be a bit creepy....and controlling.

wxmann's photo
Fri 11/29/13 03:49 PM


Is it too much to ask for a current picture of someone your chatting with? I like seeing a gal in a more relax kind of garment every once in a while. I think they look absolutely gorgeous. They obviously don't think they look or feel beautiful. Whether that is some big easy fitting hooded (or regular) sweatshirt, or a t-shirt barely tucked in or maybe a nice silky looking baggy blouse.

I for one get tired of snug fitted heavy clothing all the time. Have to do to the work environment. Granted it's not fashionably in style. But then again I don't give a hoot what is fashionable. I wear what I want to wear. Not what the fashion police say I should or must wear.

I asked that with two women I am (or should I say was)chatting with via text & email. "Oh, I can't do that". Why not? It makes me feel that the woman I'm chatting with isn't who she says she is. I like seeing photos of the person I am talking with, someone whom I am going to meet up with someday soon as it add validity. I would like to know what she looks like. I sent pictures of myself, doing various activities. Why can't she send me pictures of herself? Inside or out doing things. Why is this a one way street? I'm honest about myself, revealing my identity in photos. Why can't she do the same?


When you sent pictures of yourself "doing various activities", did you send them because the ladies asked or did you send them in the hopes they would follow your lead?...You sound as if your are not willing to meet someone until or unless you can confirm they look and act a certain way....This is cyber, no guarantees, no warranties....They only way your are really going to know is to get out from behind that screen and meet the people you are corresponding with....Then, if you don't like the cloths they are wearing,slaphead just cross them off your list and look for someone wearing bib overalls next time...


The two women asked me for the photos, and lots of photos - often. I told these two women I would like to see a photo of them once in a while too. And that's when they said that cannot do that. One gal did finally send me a photo, but she's in a very low cut top with a super short skirt.

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Fri 11/29/13 03:54 PM



Is it too much to ask for a current picture of someone your chatting with? I like seeing a gal in a more relax kind of garment every once in a while. I think they look absolutely gorgeous. They obviously don't think they look or feel beautiful. Whether that is some big easy fitting hooded (or regular) sweatshirt, or a t-shirt barely tucked in or maybe a nice silky looking baggy blouse.

I for one get tired of snug fitted heavy clothing all the time. Have to do to the work environment. Granted it's not fashionably in style. But then again I don't give a hoot what is fashionable. I wear what I want to wear. Not what the fashion police say I should or must wear.

I asked that with two women I am (or should I say was)chatting with via text & email. "Oh, I can't do that". Why not? It makes me feel that the woman I'm chatting with isn't who she says she is. I like seeing photos of the person I am talking with, someone whom I am going to meet up with someday soon as it add validity. I would like to know what she looks like. I sent pictures of myself, doing various activities. Why can't she send me pictures of herself? Inside or out doing things. Why is this a one way street? I'm honest about myself, revealing my identity in photos. Why can't she do the same?


When you sent pictures of yourself "doing various activities", did you send them because the ladies asked or did you send them in the hopes they would follow your lead?...You sound as if your are not willing to meet someone until or unless you can confirm they look and act a certain way....This is cyber, no guarantees, no warranties....They only way your are really going to know is to get out from behind that screen and meet the people you are corresponding with....Then, if you don't like the cloths they are wearing,slaphead just cross them off your list and look for someone wearing bib overalls next time...


The two women asked me for the photos, and lots of photos - often. I told these two women I would like to see a photo of them once in a while too. And that's when they said that cannot do that. One gal did finally send me a photo, but she's in a very low cut top with a super short skirt.


Well if that's the case, I can see how you might be a little agitated ....Still, why don't you just set up a meet and satisfy your curiosity that way?...

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Fri 11/29/13 03:56 PM
Oh, well if they asked for more photos and then wouldn't send more to you, I understand your annoyance. About the one in the short skirt and top, maybe she thought that's the kind of pic you wanted to see?

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Fri 11/29/13 03:56 PM


Are they refusing to post a picture of themselves, or refusing to take a picture of themselves wearing the clothing you described that you prefer?


Refusing to take any photo of themselves sitting or doing something. I'm not asking allot of pics, just one every once in a while. I don't send lots of pics of myself either.


So you already saw pics, but wanted them to take more. Yeah, I probably wouldn't do that for some random guy either.

wxmann's photo
Fri 11/29/13 04:41 PM




Is it too much to ask for a current picture of someone your chatting with? I like seeing a gal in a more relax kind of garment every once in a while. I think they look absolutely gorgeous. They obviously don't think they look or feel beautiful. Whether that is some big easy fitting hooded (or regular) sweatshirt, or a t-shirt barely tucked in or maybe a nice silky looking baggy blouse.

I for one get tired of snug fitted heavy clothing all the time. Have to do to the work environment. Granted it's not fashionably in style. But then again I don't give a hoot what is fashionable. I wear what I want to wear. Not what the fashion police say I should or must wear.

I asked that with two women I am (or should I say was)chatting with via text & email. "Oh, I can't do that". Why not? It makes me feel that the woman I'm chatting with isn't who she says she is. I like seeing photos of the person I am talking with, someone whom I am going to meet up with someday soon as it add validity. I would like to know what she looks like. I sent pictures of myself, doing various activities. Why can't she send me pictures of herself? Inside or out doing things. Why is this a one way street? I'm honest about myself, revealing my identity in photos. Why can't she do the same?


When you sent pictures of yourself "doing various activities", did you send them because the ladies asked or did you send them in the hopes they would follow your lead?...You sound as if your are not willing to meet someone until or unless you can confirm they look and act a certain way....This is cyber, no guarantees, no warranties....They only way your are really going to know is to get out from behind that screen and meet the people you are corresponding with....Then, if you don't like the cloths they are wearing,slaphead just cross them off your list and look for someone wearing bib overalls next time...


The two women asked me for the photos, and lots of photos - often. I told these two women I would like to see a photo of them once in a while too. And that's when they said that cannot do that. One gal did finally send me a photo, but she's in a very low cut top with a super short skirt.


Well if that's the case, I can see how you might be a little agitated ....Still, why don't you just set up a meet and satisfy your curiosity that way?...


Would be nice, but both of them live outside the USA.

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Fri 11/29/13 04:45 PM
If they live outside of the USA, why do you even care???? I can't imagine getting that involved with someone I'll never meet.noway

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Fri 11/29/13 04:47 PM





Is it too much to ask for a current picture of someone your chatting with? I like seeing a gal in a more relax kind of garment every once in a while. I think they look absolutely gorgeous. They obviously don't think they look or feel beautiful. Whether that is some big easy fitting hooded (or regular) sweatshirt, or a t-shirt barely tucked in or maybe a nice silky looking baggy blouse.

I for one get tired of snug fitted heavy clothing all the time. Have to do to the work environment. Granted it's not fashionably in style. But then again I don't give a hoot what is fashionable. I wear what I want to wear. Not what the fashion police say I should or must wear.

I asked that with two women I am (or should I say was)chatting with via text & email. "Oh, I can't do that". Why not? It makes me feel that the woman I'm chatting with isn't who she says she is. I like seeing photos of the person I am talking with, someone whom I am going to meet up with someday soon as it add validity. I would like to know what she looks like. I sent pictures of myself, doing various activities. Why can't she send me pictures of herself? Inside or out doing things. Why is this a one way street? I'm honest about myself, revealing my identity in photos. Why can't she do the same?


When you sent pictures of yourself "doing various activities", did you send them because the ladies asked or did you send them in the hopes they would follow your lead?...You sound as if your are not willing to meet someone until or unless you can confirm they look and act a certain way....This is cyber, no guarantees, no warranties....They only way your are really going to know is to get out from behind that screen and meet the people you are corresponding with....Then, if you don't like the cloths they are wearing,slaphead just cross them off your list and look for someone wearing bib overalls next time...


The two women asked me for the photos, and lots of photos - often. I told these two women I would like to see a photo of them once in a while too. And that's when they said that cannot do that. One gal did finally send me a photo, but she's in a very low cut top with a super short skirt.


Well if that's the case, I can see how you might be a little agitated ....Still, why don't you just set up a meet and satisfy your curiosity that way?...


Would be nice, but both of them live outside the USA.


Oh, I just assumed from your OP "someone I'm going to meet up with someday" that they were here...So if you don't have any plans of meeting these women, just settle for what you get...It's sounding more and more like everybody is just playing games anyway Wxmann, you included...

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Fri 11/29/13 04:56 PM

If they live outside of the USA, why do you even care???? I can't imagine getting that involved with someone I'll never meet.noway


lollaugh ....this^

I can;t imagine sending photos unless I 've been talking with someone for awhile and think it might lead somewhere because of things he's said...or we've said...