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Topic: ONLINE DATING IS GOOD OR BAD
lapa01 Joined Wed 10/23/13 Posts: 3	Fri 01/31/14 10:19 AM
online dating is good if you meet the right person who is for real.As for me when i find what I am looking for I will be off this network.

lookinforluv79 Joined Sun 02/10/13 Posts: 1	Sat 02/01/14 11:08 AM
why is it hard to find some one that will like me for me and will not make me change

graywolf55 Joined Wed 09/19/12 Posts: 1259	Sat 02/01/14 11:48 AM
Sometimes its a good thing? But most of the times "its bad" I've got a few Female friends on here that i've never met and wish i could! How do you really know my posting in the forums,matching or the other options that Mingle provides if the other party doesn't precipitate? An email is fine back and forth to know the other party involved but most of the time its more discouraging than dating!! Personally if i see some i'm wishing to know " i say hi how are you"or try to get a conversation going,they either talk to you"mostly out of respect" or ignore you showing there true color"a snobbish selfcentered" person i didn't need to know in the first place! But on here how can you know someone you never meet? Is this just a chatting site or dating site? If this is all that's offered here that's what Facebook and the others are for! I would post more for the ladies to know me better,but Why? Is this it on here? I'm just asking anyone that thinks i'm important enough to answer back and not just skipped like on one of my posts? Like Rate Me? Has more than one of my years been Wasted by being on here? Or is the real Modern way to date? Just maby my Daughter was Wrong and i was the right one about internet dating and just put an add in the local newspaper for a good laugh around town"of course with a picture so everyone knows your single!! (Again)

gt_bombshell Joined Fri 01/31/14 Posts: 3	Sat 02/01/14 12:33 PM
I believe it's good, personally it's a good option for me. I live in an island with under 5000 person. Subtract the children, female, elderly and married men, it does look good for me. To get a relationship I have to expand my horizons. I would love to meet a genuinely nice guy, but its hard online since not everyone is honest and also willing to try a long distance relationship.

gt_bombshell Joined Fri 01/31/14 Posts: 3	Sat 02/01/14 12:36 PM
As long as you are serious it's possible.

allie0408 Joined Fri 01/31/14 Posts: 129	Sun 02/02/14 06:33 AM
I like it. You get to meet interesting people it has its downside but you learn how to sort through

Mirramichelle Joined Sat 06/29/13 Posts: 2	Mon 02/03/14 04:32 AM
is good,if you found the man.

skyreacher_4live Joined Tue 01/28/14 Posts: 8	Mon 02/03/14 02:45 PM
For me, looking for a relationship other than frienship online is risky. you don't get to know people only by what they tell you, but also by what you've observed them to be and online dating does not give room for that.

pinpinbo Joined Fri 02/07/14 Posts: 42	Sun 02/09/14 07:49 AM
i think online can be good for alternative

JMDPA1965 Joined Sat 02/08/14 Posts: 495	Sun 02/09/14 08:30 AM
That depends on the site your on . Am not going to say all women are bad but what I seen you would wonder your self .On pof alone women are very cruel they judge before they look in the heart .I had a lot tried to play me am no fool I tell it as it is .Granted am no prince but at least I can say am real I got tired of the online dating for a long time just got back here hope to make a few friends maybe one best friend partner .As I go on I noticed that women not all want marriage want house want the man to be shaped in.to there image then religion plays a part if you don't fit the part they don't want you not even a friend .I tell them the hair stays lol.But this is what I seen 5years on pof and a few other sites . I agree with what you said about POF. In Central PA, the women are horrible on there.

JMDPA1965 Joined Sat 02/08/14 Posts: 495	Sun 02/09/14 08:37 AM
I am in total agreement with you. There are nice women in my area but online they are unique. It is a good thing I don't judge central PA by the online women, I would move out of the area tomorrow. You are better off going out in the world and meeting someone. Or do volunteer work or join a club.

Unknow Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 64077	Sun 02/09/14 10:19 AM
It is what a person makes it out to be...

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sun 02/09/14 10:28 AM
cant qualify it as 'good' or 'bad' people cant really date online, they can only chat online , which may lead to dating,,,

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sun 02/09/14 10:31 AM
cant qualify it as 'good' or 'bad' people cant really date online, they can only chat online , which may lead to dating,,, This. And most of the time, once you get to know them, you realize you don't want to date them anyway.