This one sentence has haunted me my entire life. It really sucks hearing this from people I end up liking or loving. Why can't feelings just be mutual and equal? Why the differences ? Why would people say something like that without even thinking how much those words may hurt someone who is just concerned and trying to create a special bond and putting in all the effort? It hurts... I don't even know what to say...Anyone else have these experiences? Or have opinions on what I said. Please feel free to share your thoughts. :/

If someone isn't into me, I accept it and move on. I have no other suggestions for you, because most people don't want to hear that.

If it keeps on happening, then what does that tell you? I think you do yourself no justice, putting all these feelings into something that may never happen. It would be better to get to know them properly, before diving into anything serious. Just have them as friends, and if anything more is meant to happen, it will, but don't sit moping about it, as that won't do you or your health any good.

This is it in a nutshell my friend. If someone isn't into you you have to accept it and move on. We have all had this happened to us and it sucks and it hurts but at least the other person is being honest with you.One day you will find the right woman and the gate will swing the other way for you. Good luck and God bless.