Okay guys, here is the question: You meet a lady on line, you meet, spend 8 hours eating, watching a movie, and talking over coffee (she buys dinner, you buy the movie and coffee). You call her when you think she is home to be sure she made it there safely, then call her the next morning to tell her good morning and what a good time you had. You keep exchaning emails and phone calls. You decide to take her to lunch, and keep talking through the next couple of weeks. Then, you dont call her for three days (you have been calling her every day) - what does this mean?

Oh yeah... When she answers the phone you say, "So you do remember me!"

What does all of this mean? Sorry but I am new at this dating thing and dont know what to make of it. H E L P !!

Thanks!

PS You've sent emails like: I could really get used to hearing your voice every morning and evening too.

lots of possibilities . He doesn t call does he email or text you ?

From last Sunday until this morning he did not contact me at all.

um. don't really know how to answer that one. That has never been an issue with me.
The only thing I can guess...and this is a guess, is that the chase is over for him, and that's all he was interested in.

Sounds like he suddenly became distracted with something or someone else.

well give him a chance to tell his side maybe something came up or work maybe he didnt call to see if you would

im over thrity

i think shutter has it right..very possible , he's waiting for you to call him???

He wanted to give you a little space to collect your opinion of him.Often time men who contact a woman every day is accused of trying to smother her.Maybe he's trying to avoid that.

same thing happened to me and i figured he was thinking about what it would be like to be away from me...lol
No seriously, people have issues when they first meet sometimes and too much togetherness can scare some people so they take a step back and then when they realize they miss you...all of a sudden they are calling or however you communicate with them...again. No harm in contacting them...no loss if they are not interested...just say hey was thinking about you and hadnt heard from you in awhile..with todays technology...you dont even have to talk to them, email, text...voice mail....got nothing to loose and everything to gain if he is just waiting to see if you make the next move. Dont know why people are like this...why cant everyone just be honest...maybe past experiences have made them a little scared to take the next step or make the next move. hope that helps and little and keep us informed on what happens...best of luck to you...fingers crossed that it works out.

Why should she call him!!!
He should call her!!!!

And if he don't call you''
you know someting is up!!!

I disagree nancy if a couple is dating they should call each other. I left someone for not calling me she said nope you have to call me that is BS.

agreed, kojak

spelling, sorry kojack

He's not into you! Don't settle for some guy who doesn't know what he wants, it's not worth your time

OHHHHHHHHHHH its the rubber band thing......man in cave......rubber band men are from mars women from venus!!

maybe dude had ...

nevermind ... he should call , dammit!

W O W ! ! What a responce! Thanks all. Once again everyone on jsh is amazing! All I know is I like this guy and want to see this whatever it is to its end, whatever that may be. I guess I will have to call him and just take it one step at a time! Thanks to all for your input! I really appreciate it!

welcome to jsh grace...speaking strictly for myself, if i paid that kind of attention to someone over a period of time like that, and then didn't call for three days, i would be waiting to hear something from you, and dying to know if you if the feelings were mutual....but thats just me, i do tend to lean towards being a bit on the introverted side, until i am comfortable with the situation and know where i stand..

ohhhhhhhh I thought that was when they went into their cave....