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Topic: Why the need for nude photos?
Awatersign's photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:38 PM

Yeah totally pathetic. I mean who would want to see a girl naked!? yawn

Men have been enjoying the aesthetics of the female physique since forever. Only difference is now
we have phones and cameras and computers that make data exchange fast and simple. This is nothing new ladies.

However, typically, you're not supposed to ask for these things because it is impossible to do so without coming off
as a total creeper.

As for Argo- just because you're attracted to a girl physically doesn't mean it ends there. It doesn't imply a one-track mind any less than being an older man implies that you're out of touch with modern communication. Check Instagram or deviantart or any other means of rapid data exchange. You'll see 'selfies' everywhere. They can range from mild pictures of friends to incredibly revealing body shots. Given this fact is a nude selfie all that taboo? Sexting happens all the time.

Perhaps if there were a mutual attraction between the you and whoever was asking you'd be more inclined to oblige? Im sure we wouldn't be reading this thread right now if that were the case.

drinker
That makes sense to me:thumbsup:

Copper Nitrogen Titanium's photo
Mon 06/23/14 07:44 PM
I love sending out semi nude photos to complete strangers. I just can't get enough of their false compliments to garner more nakedness. Top that with my swelling ego because I hear how perfect I look.

Life is Dandy devil

Awatersign's photo
Mon 06/23/14 08:02 PM


Yeah totally pathetic. I mean who would want to see a girl naked!? yawn

Men have been enjoying the aesthetics of the female physique since forever. Only difference is now
we have phones and cameras and computers that make data exchange fast and simple. This is nothing new ladies.

However, typically, you're not supposed to ask for these things because it is impossible to do so without coming off
as a total creeper.

As for Argo- just because you're attracted to a girl physically doesn't mean it ends there. It doesn't imply a one-track mind any less than being an older man implies that you're out of touch with modern communication. Check Instagram or deviantart or any other means of rapid data exchange. You'll see 'selfies' everywhere. They can range from mild pictures of friends to incredibly revealing body shots. Given this fact is a nude selfie all that taboo? Sexting happens all the time.

Perhaps if there were a mutual attraction between the you and whoever was asking you'd be more inclined to oblige? Im sure we wouldn't be reading this thread right now if that were the case.

drinker
That makes sense to me:thumbsup:
But i also think some guys make it bad for others caus if you realy like or love somone your definetly going to want to see your naked ect...some women dont have a problem with it thats why some guys ask the next woman the meet to send them it..so i think unless you're dealing with i freak that dont mind then..hey...by all means..but if you respect a woman i feel you shouldnt ask for it!!

Jtevans's photo
Mon 06/23/14 11:33 PM

I know that not all guys here are pathetic. But some or a lot are!

Some claims they are GENTLEMAN and will not ask for rude photos. But eventually, after a while, they do!

tsk. tsk.



why?we're gonna see y'all naked at some point,might as well get it over with smokin shades

turtlebug01's photo
Mon 06/23/14 11:35 PM
They are boys not men. simple enough.

Radhe Radhe's photo
Thu 12/10/15 07:35 AM
That's your point if you send them you semi at first chat.. You must be right with your decision.. Good luck

Radhe Radhe's photo
Thu 12/10/15 07:36 AM

I love sending out semi nude photos to complete strangers. I just can't get enough of their false compliments to garner more nakedness. Top that with my swelling ego because I hear how perfect I look.

Life is Dandy devil


Nice thinking of you.. Good luck

no photo
Thu 12/10/15 08:21 AM

I know that not all guys here are pathetic. But some or a lot are!

Some claims they are GENTLEMAN and will not ask for rude photos. But eventually, after a while, they do!

tsk. tsk.


They don't mention at what age so I send them this one:



tongue2

4moon's photo
Thu 12/10/15 09:38 AM


I know that not all guys here are pathetic. But some or a lot are!

Some claims they are GENTLEMAN and will not ask for rude photos. But eventually, after a while, they do!

tsk. tsk.


They don't mention at what age so I send them this one:



tongue2


tongue2

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 12/10/15 10:33 AM
I think that curiosity/fantasizing about what a potential partner looks like sans clothing is pretty normal. People who deny they never have that thought cross their mind about someone they are attracted to would worry me more.

However most intelligent people can "imagine" enough to satisfactorily determine attraction without completely disrobing. So when someone insists they have to see nudity I find them rather ignorant. Or on some kind of power trip; even oversexualized.

What I do NOT think is normal is expecting someone to share that information prematurely.

And certainly not on some kind of media where you are putting yourself out there for the entire world. There is no such thing as "private" email and anyone who deludes themselves into believing it is at best ignorant.

A partner that wants that wants the power the photo gives them and that would make me uncomfortable. Certainly enough to drop contact for someone more self controlled.

What bothers me more is when someone contradicts themselves and says I am a respectful smart person and then can't wait until and appropriate time to see their partner in person. I know then it was just a snow job. Those people effectively delete themselves from my view.

I do think some people actually ask if a partner will provide nude pictures as some kind of "character" test. If provided it is and excuse to demote them to pathetic and if they don't to some how elevate them to some ideal that is pretty much the pendulum swinging too far the other way too.

People of either gender that say they don't have some kind of pin up shot of their partner that they fantasize over are at best deluding themselves or at worst out right liars. Men's might be a little more openly erotic but don't kid yourself women have liked "revealing" photos for generations. You look through many older women's private photo album there will be one shot of her mate in the back yard, no shirt or and undershirt, shorts, or some kind of "muscle" shot.

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