yeah i no problem if she ha 1.2.3.4.5.6..!

I am on a Asian ( Pinoy ) dating site. And almost any woman says what you say.. But there is a milion people on that website. So i would not worry about it if i was you. It is perfectly normal. But it is kind of interesting to know. That the majority of Western woman that i see on dating sites. Never ask to be accepted for the fact that they have children.

awww, thank you, and not being cynical, im just speaking from a logical point of view. example " Do I look fat in these jeans". now if she really does look fat and you tell the truth, it will be some problems,. I think people want something until they get it, then theirs always the problem of having what they want and not appreciating it. if you got a good partner who lies about the little stuff, either to make you feel better, or to spare you some type of negative emotion, I think that is better then some one keeping it 100% honest. I think we as people are influenced by waaay too many point of views on what love is. what makes a healthy relationship. bla bla bla. what may be good for the goose, may not be good for the gander. the same with beauty, compatability etc. but I wont touch on those topics as to keep to the point. if your partner ask a question that you know will put you in the hot seat...LIE! sugercoat, etc. because no one wants to know they look fat in those jeans.lol, most likely they already know and seeing how your going to answer.

My friend decided to make a drastic change of her style (looks), so she asked me to go shopping together and I said YES! Oh, what a mistake. LOL
I tried not to hurt her feelings, so I suggested her to try one dress that would make her look much better. What a reaction! She bought the dress that didn't compliment her figure and got back home so mad at me that she didn't call few days or pick up my calls.
Later she calmed down a bit. Someone else told her the same thing, but not so gently. She remembered the dress I suggested her to try, went back to store and got it.
Then she called as if nothing happened. And it didn't really. It is not important anyways. It's just a dress.
She hesitated to call me to go out, so I took initiative and came to pick her up.
She looked great in her new dress and I told her that. The whole hell broke loose. Again! LOL
I started laughing and just hugged her. Her rant stopped and she laughed with me.
Funny thing is that she appreciated the fact that I never asked for any apology or anything. Why apologize? I figured that change of style is her way of trying to change some things in her life and it is just a phase she is going through.
Now she figured it has nothing to do with a dress, but something completely different and wants to apologize for outbursts. Again, no need for that. I know what she is going through, so it doesn't matter.
Now, if she has done the same thing to some poor man he would probably be confused and run away as far as he could.
Men sometimes take emotional outbursts as OPINIONS. That's the problem.
Not every man is verbal and likes to talk about feelings. Sometimes less (words) is more, but it takes time to some of ladies to realize that.

this was my thought exactly?
my secnd question is how do you, personally view single parents? based on your original post, it looks like a negative topic. single parents are good people too.
and there are good men out there who are willing to make a good family with single moms. I had a wonderful stepdad who treated me and my sister like his own

Yes i agree..sorry if i did wrong with my post...

Yes...If you are a good person...love will find a way

AAAAA ya? butt yes most of us men have no problem dating single mothers,we love kids,and most of us have kids aswell,welcome and enjoy you time here on the forums,,

Today is a new day right? decide what you can and cant deal with in life and forgive and forget the past. the PAST. live in the now and look forward to the future. nobody can change their mistakes we are all human but i would like to think i can learn from anything that happens in my life and i am still making mistakes but trying to live up to any wrong doing, make it right and smile for today and my future.

And this is the way what i did now...

You are judging a book by its cover there are bad apples wherever you go whatever you do, your choice is to discard the rotten ones and to choose the good ones, sometimes it can take a long time but the wait is worth it, have faith that is all we can ask for.

You just made yourself a few enemies by telling people the truth.

I blame society .