I have been on this sight and others for over six months. I have found that when you have a problem like I have being honest is a good way to be ignored or the only responses you do get are 20 sometimes scammers, profiles that us old or phony photos or disrespectful women. It doesn't matter about character because with few exceptions I feel people can't get past medical issues, being honest, faithful, courteous and trustworthy doesn't matter. When almost every profile I read are looking for those things plus job. I can't work but draw two forms of disability payments. Past comments I have received for just saying hello have gotten negative responses so I'm sure this will too.