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Topic: Why do men never say what they really want
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Fri 10/27/06 06:08 PM
I guess scared of rejection, ?

hosstin18's photo
Fri 10/27/06 06:19 PM
you shouldnt be scared of rejection ok the main reason i say this is
becuse if ur afraid of rejection you be afraid to start dating aagain

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Fri 10/27/06 06:27 PM
No I mean are men scared of rejection as much as women are

hosstin18's photo
Fri 10/27/06 06:32 PM
yes preety much we may see agril we like then we may not pls her or
attract her to us rejection is a scary thing for guys

hosstin18's photo
Fri 10/27/06 06:42 PM
but i am not afraid of rejection

EFP's photo
Fri 10/27/06 06:55 PM
I beg to differ:
Confidence:
A confident man will say what they want.(How,what, when, where and why).
Without a doubt...Ya feel me...

hosstin18's photo
Fri 10/27/06 06:57 PM
i agree with you man i see that alot with my friends i am only speaking
about for some not all

hosstin18's photo
Fri 10/27/06 06:59 PM
not all of us are confindent u know it took me 7 years to get confindent
you know it takes tim i hope we all have confindance so that way all of
the world not be lonely

simpledisaster's photo
Fri 10/27/06 07:06 PM
well just recently i went through this.. he suddenly didn't know what he
wanted after he did know before and blah blah.. i told him he shouldn't
put himself out there like he knows what he wants unless he's sure,
because it's like emotional torture for the girl... i mean, if you hear
someone say i love you, i want to marry you.. blahblahdiddyblah.. and
then the next day i don't know what makes me happy.. that's... wow
stupid.

EFP's photo
Fri 10/27/06 07:10 PM
To answer DramaFree2 question.
Are men scared of rejection as much as women are. Depends on the
individual person. No one likes rejection. You have to have high self
esteem and realize that their rejection is simply an opinion.

hosstin18's photo
Fri 10/27/06 07:10 PM
really thats an eye opener i guess

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Fri 10/27/06 07:10 PM
yea, but some guys want you to be a mind reader

lime_bender's photo
Fri 10/27/06 07:15 PM
I would have to agree that it really depends on indiviual. For the most
part everyone has certian fears of rejection. However for some they view
it as its better to live for the moment and take every advantage you
have, instead of worring about what could have happend,instead of
findout what will happen...

Morena350's photo
Fri 10/27/06 07:17 PM
yeap
that's right, they don't tell you what's on their mind
and they want you to know what they want
some of them anyway
there are some shy man, and there are some very open to say what they
want

hope to find someone who is open and can express his feelings

lol,lol

morena

lime_bender's photo
Fri 10/27/06 07:18 PM
Thats how i am. there's no point in living in the shadows, or you will
find the world passing you by.

chica42ny's photo
Fri 10/27/06 07:19 PM
the same here morena!

Morena350's photo
Fri 10/27/06 07:20 PM
hey, chica was up?

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Fri 10/27/06 07:25 PM
Same here my whole thing is be open give me that option of accepting it
or not

poisonflightledr's photo
Fri 10/27/06 07:37 PM
Ok its like this, especially with people like us who are in the
personals...so some people tend to stretch the truth a bit, make
themselves out to the person they are quite not.

Once the ball gets rolling it’s not easy to keep up the charade. But
most important guys tend to take advantage of a situation and will
normally say anything that is suitable at the time.

Remember that movie ‘SAY ANYTHING”
Besides as humans we are complicated creature and will remain as such so
my philosophy is this...unless you are in a real tight relationship (a
true soul mate) believe in nothing you hear and believe only half of
what you see.

Not for nothing but every thing in my profile I CAN back up with hard
evidence

EFP's photo
Fri 10/27/06 07:45 PM
I agree, Poisonflightledr.
Honesty, the best policy and the proof is in the pudding..

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