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Hmmmm......actually I am not looking for love! Just waiting for love to bump into me! 
Hmm you are living/practicing wuwei theory i see. that's cool i have gotten to the point of living/knowing the above chinese saying all too well. I'll be glad when that no longer matters & i am with my honey bunny finally. Hi Tony! 
With what you are practicing, it is inevitable that the Chinese sayings will rub on you. For the time being, I am just enjoying finding friends and making connections from here and elsewhere. Hope you find your honey bunny soon. |
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The more opposite the better. But unfortunately women no longer want a hero, no, they want a Joey, or a Chandler, or a Ross. They want guys they can relate to. Beta males have never had it so good. Red....."The more opposite the better" you sure about that? You have been bragging that you are good looking, so,you want someone who is not?????? And you brag you like sex..... so, you want her to be the opposite???? |
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op being the age I am ... and having had two husbands ... which both had similarity's and attraction was there for us ... I am looking for a different kind of man now ... but still have the feeling I still have to have some familiarities with them ... like some things in common ... but I do believe every relationship goes through a beginning stage of like for each other ... and no demand's on one another ... has to feel like it is natural ... that we are together ... because it is something we both want... Mystical....being our age and most of us may have had a bad relationship, a bad marriage, divorce, etc etc...... we should really examine exactly what we are looking for, not just leap into it. Be it someone with similar or opposing traits, it can either complement or contrast, we still need both of that, but if it works... then, I say, go for it once you are sure of it. I am not really ready for anything, so, I am going to just enjoy knowing people and be friends for starters. |
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Zee...that is exactly what happened to someone I knew from here too! But I was the one who got dumped...  cos' though we clicked and were having daily 3 or 4 hour chats, it just wasn't going to work with the distance and each others commitments. As with all LDR, unless someone can uproot and move...it can't carry on indefinitely.
So, it looks like most of us go thru' similar situations, and could learn from each other on how to handle it, the pros and cons...and then decide on what's best for our own situation. sorry to hear that (((ame))) however in todays day and tech age.. it offers the opportunity for a larger 'pool' of fish if you will.. and in doing so, gives us the chance to meet others of 'like mind' that can live half way around the world.. the clincher is.. do we act? or let yet another get away because we're too comfortable in our current lives OR just too afraid to take the leap.. my dad used to say.. ANY thing is possible, if you want it bad enough! as I'd mentioned though.. mine wasn't about distance, it was his words and actions that thru me.. inconstancy's from one conversation to the next.. comments and reactions to the topics.. all these things told me, it simply wouldn't work! yes, seems many of us do go thru the same things.. the only advice I can offer is though.. listen closely to your gut! 
Zee, it has been a long time since I got dumped (my first dumping here in Mingles ).....though, I am still going thru' with the divorce which has dragged on for sometime now!
Even starting as friends, if someone wants it to go further, and another doesn't, than, it may be best to cut it short. Save both parties the anguish in the long run. On the other hand, if both were clicking in so many ways, if they had not given up and given it a chance, and work things out, it could have ended differently. So, we never know.....as your dad said "ANY thing is possible, if you want it bad enough! " Yeah....that 'gut feeling'!
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