CAn you kick up the ashes and bring the sparks to life-
when a man cannot make up his mind if he wants you for his wife?
married three years and picking up any girl around
trying to match you up too with every guy in town
maybe i was just born the wrong time for me
for I cannot swim in all this LIBERALITY
dnot want to play at wipe swapping games
just want a man who can truly love me
a man who won't smack me around or my family
who I can hold hands with and share a smile, who won't feel the need to hurt me with words or deed and say, just jokin
for I have stopped laughing
and my eyes dried from years of cryin
the love has died and now my ex says re-marry me
and waiting for my love like a doormat
so he can joke on me
wipe his feet and walk away so many times
I won't beg him anymore to stay
for the love has died
so I could stay

I'm sorry!

What are we supposed to do
After all that we've been through
When everything that felt so right was wrong
Now that the love is gone

There is nothing left to prove
Now you deny this simple truth
Can't find the reason to keep moving on
Now that the love is gone

Love is gone, by David Guetta!

Just the start of a favourite song of mine, but the words remind me of my oldest sons mum, when we were only sticking it out for the sake of our son. Not a reason to be with someone though, as everyone suffers that way in the end? leigh

oh my - so sorry this kinda crap has happened in your life.

totally relate - when you love it is so hard to stop.

we are in love with an image of what we want love to be and the
other person is just not on that page at all.

it takes a while but eventually we realise it is best to walk
away - take heart in the positives in your life -


'being Happy is the best revenge'

No woman or man deserves to be a doormat, a man like that does not deserve your time or attention. "Kick up the ashes, spray them with water, make sure there is no sparks left."

You should say, "I don't want revenge, I just want you to get the **** out of my life and stay out of it," move on, think about taking care of yourself.

You want to forget the hurt and move on.

thanks for all your nice advice everyone, God bless you all

I love that quote, being happy is the best revenge

wow, love the inspiational poem by unknown