aaawww that was just wrong,did you pay? what turns me off is woman ask me what turns me off,,JK ,,ANNIE, why cant woman ask me what turns me on???? LOL

If that would of happened to me , I would of just paid for my dinner and leave him there .

Ok my friend I hope I don't regret this But what turns you on beside women in fast cars. Please help us to understand the male brain.
Yes I didn't have a choice but to pay.

The next date was I wanted to go out to a nice place for a really posh meal, after working so hard all week.
He took me to McDonald's, yes for a ice cream.

When she purposely leaves her purse at home

seriously, There's not alot that turns me off specifically about anyone. I guess the only thing that gets to me the most is when a Woman uses the F word

I have learnt now that if he doesn't treat me like a queen when he wants to be treated like a king. I will not be staying. It will take more than a cheap meal to win my heart.
To me its about repect, honest, and caring before I fall for a guy.

I'm all about that respect, honesty and caring but I'm not up on forking out $100.00 on a dinner on the first date. Just to get a chance to meet you? way out of my league girl.

So I guess the final answer depends on you OP, how much is respect, honesty and caring worth to you?

Q: why is that when a guy has a friend that he looks out for, has trust in etc. it's dubbed as a man crush? If a girl has a girlfriend they do everything with from picking out lingerie to talking to for hours about _____ she is just a friend.
Nothing weird about fixing eachothers makeup or trading outfits (hopefully not lingerie). You won't find a straight male outside the chippendales (focus ladies) looking at another dudes briefs. A male's male friend is not called a boyfriend. Guys do "guy things" but we don't hold hands or sit in a circle indian style doing eachothers nails and talk about what guys are hunks. That would be a man crush, but that is common among groups of straight women. Not all women, some.
As for the buddy system, do women not talk to eachother to find out if another woman knows of a good suitable man is available? My friends step mother had never met met and fifteen minutes later she was talking about someone she knew would be just right for me. I think what you mean to say is like an oath or code, but don't women do the same thing?
Im not trying to start a slugfest that men do this and women do that.
I'm not sexist.

Usually it is the restraining order. But I am put off by people who think a date is about impressing them instead of getting to know them. If all you got to offer is the ability to eat at restaurants I can't use ya. I won't do anything "special" until I have an actual relationship with someone. Otherwise, it is like licking off all the frosting and the next day all you got is some stale, crusty, bland cake. Of course I have been known to let a girl super size her quarter pounder with cheese meal on a second date. NO FREE BEER!

Why should I lower my expectations for a man when he will have his? I lowered them down before and was burnt. Sorry I won't do it again. If he wants a jewel then he has to think like a king. Its not about money, it's about the thought he puts into the dates.

Tattooed or shaved off drawn on eyebrows. Go pluck yourselves, pluck but don't pluck 'em all. Neat is ok if your brows are naturally thick that's understandable. No actual brows or leaving a pinstripe is just not attractive. Face neck or cleavage tattoos that are so big they can't be hidden in normal clothing. It's your skin, can't dispute that at all and I'm not against women with tattoos in general but that's drawing too much attention. It'd be like a guy walking around in a Speedo that has a cucumber where his pickle is. We all know where they are you don't need a flashing neon sign on the girls.

That's disrespectful, dishonest and uncaring. He just asked you what those traits meant to you and your answer was money. To clarify for those who might have missed it…
It's not about the money, it's the thought of how much money that counts.

I'm not saying you should lower yourself, it's all a lost cause for us guys that can't fit the bill to have a chance with you and I guess that's ok. Pretty girl, you've got some spunk, but your really narrowing the field to find any respect, honesty and caring, because the few of us that have all those things usually don't have a lot of anything else. that's why I ask.....what is that truly worth to you.

You don't have to have money to put thought into a date. Creative and imagination goes along way. For me saying I like/love you needs to be followed up with action (I don't just mean in the bedroom). Is that too much to ask?

I got your back on that needsum...it isn't disrespectful for a person to refrain from financing another's amusement they don't really even know. It IS disrespectful to form an opinion of someone based on how much money they are willing to spend to make sure YOU enjoy YOURSELF. My idea of a date is to find out if we can enjoy each other. Because when it comes down to it and we are sitting at home staring at each other without all the outside stimuli, our ability or inability to enjoy that time is what will makes or breaks the relationship. I don't reckon I would be able to form a lasting relationship with a woman who measures me by my willingness and/or ability to provide her with overpriced meals. I think that would have me settling for less than I deserve as a person.

A woman I worked with told a group of us this story: A man of means she had been talking with off and on calls her and asks her if she would like to have a seafood dinner. She says swell and they arrange to meet at her home. He arrives with a bottle of wine, a can of smoked oysters and some crackers. They went out on her balcony and drank and ate while the sun set. A female coworker spoke up and said, "I bet that made you made as hell!" To which she replied, "No, it was terribly romantic."

People that are more interested in having their wants satisfied and what is being offered them never seem to describe just what it is they are offering in return. I don't care how pretty you are, what kind of job you have, your body type, if you are not a decent human being I can't get along with you.

So if I said "I'd like you to meet me at In & Out, my favorite burger joint and talk over some burgers and fries. If we like what we see and hear, then keep the rest of the night going with whatever feels right." Would that be creative enough?

I hope that isn't directed at me needsum - I'm a dude, dude!

More than enough
I will explain more I don't care about what money he has. I am looking for someone that has a big heart. He puts thought into what he is doing and how he is going to do it. It is amazing what you can do without money but with a little creative imagination. I would rather pay for myself personally because I am an independent woman. I don't think the man should pay for everything.
Examples: making sandwiches and going to the park for lunch.
Maybe cooking a meal.
Picking flowers out of the garden.

Do you get the picture now?
Please don't think I am a high maintenance women because I am not.

I am perched high on my Goddess throne. Where is my king?

lol, no..........and thanks for covering my back, very well put.