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Topic: is there such a thing as a good honest guy? are any left
1j9b6c5's photo
Sat 05/09/15 09:40 AM
Or u can use the zone to keep them from breaking your heart. That way when they laugh in your face you can laugh with them and say:"I was playing." I suppose iit's just as difficult a search to try to fin a good and honest woman.

SitkaRains's photo
Sat 05/09/15 11:34 AM

Or u can use the zone to keep them from breaking your heart. That way when they laugh in your face you can laugh with them and say:"I was playing." I suppose iit's just as difficult a search to try to fin a good and honest woman.


Ouch!!!!... So because I am honest I am not a good woman... And isn't that as subjective as
Finding a good man ...

What one finds "good" another is going to say ewww not my cup of tea.

Kind of the saying
One man's junk is another man's treasure...flowerforyou

1j9b6c5's photo
Sat 05/09/15 08:50 PM


Or u can use the zone to keep them from breaking your heart. That way when they laugh in your face you can laugh with them and say:"I was playing." I suppose iit's just as difficult a search to try to fin a good and honest woman.


Ouch!!!!... So because I am honest I am not a good woman... And isn't that as subjective as
Finding a good man ...

What one finds "good" another is going to say ewww not my cup of tea.

Kind of the saying
One man's junk is another man's treasure...flowerforyou
I don't understand. Or perhaps I'm just beered up. I don't disagree with you.

lcjw's photo
Tue 05/12/15 06:37 PM
Don't think so.

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 05/12/15 06:57 PM


Most good guys can be found in the Friend Zone where we are usually unceremoniously tossed into lol

Wow what I have found here is the said men that complain about this are still good men they just forgot to tell us they never wanted to be put in the friends zone..

This statement reminds me of a guy I once knew I was really interested in him as a dating material I did everything I could to find out.. I find out years later that he wanted to date me back then funny he forgot to let me know and once a guy is in the friends zone it is rare they ever come out...
So maybe let said woman know you are interested in more


I so agree with this. There are guys I have carried a torch for months, even longer, trying to show what a great guy I thought they were but just eventually gave up. Two I can think of have come back around and bemoaned passing it up and marrying the wrong gal then ending up divorced again and several "oh if I thought you were the marrying kind I would have married you." Well duh you have to ask.

No I did not climb on top of them and rub my blessings in their face to get them to notice me but if a female is consistently being, kind, considerate, going out of her way to be a friend, and feminine towards you for Crimeney Sakes wake up and smell the coffee before she gets luke warm about the idea. Or someone else beats you out of the race. If they think of you even as a friend that will not go away, actually it is a very nice compliment, but if they are then hey BONANZA!

Beats the hell out of trying to rekindle something that has sputtered out because you finally got up your nerve or thought of some grand way to say "Hey I think you and I should see if we could be more than friends could I ask you out next weekend? ." Most of us will not eat you alive. Promise!

ALBYAK's photo
Tue 05/12/15 07:23 PM
There are good guys and gals on all the sights but it works better when there are enough in an area to get together and do something as a group. Have been to meetups on several other sites and have many friends from them. Hard to get together with someone from Bora-Borafrustrated Have only had one real date here in over 5 years-great time canoeing and camping, but she got back with an old friend just after our datetears


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