now I don't think that the word love really exist.
for me its a thing created by the human mind just to feel comfort of own .
I had left believing in that thing .
its another name of pain for some people

My friend, "Love" is an amalgam of all human emotions.

If you feel only joy and never sorrow, then you aren't in "love".

If you feel only sadness and never elation, you aren't in "love".

If you are equally indifferent to her staying or going, you aren't in "love"

Love exists...but usually as an ore...it must be processed and refined.

I respect what you said.... but what will you say about those who fall in that thing more then once? what's that called?

People sure use the word a lot.
So...the word exists...love...see?


For me it's more related to:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Biological_basis_of_love
Simply because everything that influences people has a purpose beyond making you feel. Making you feel is not the end goal.

Personally, I think the huge drive towards individuality and the idea of "independence," especially in the western world, getting away from religion, pushing towards the idea that everyone is "equal," has caused people to really try to find things that make them special, to differentiate themselves, be unique, better and different than others. Mostly to keep from being judged. Or if they're going to be judged, then it's going to be judged "good," because they're unique and different.

So people come up with their own ideas and definitions of basic things like love.
Anything that allows them to feel more special than others because they can say "well you don't know me, you don't know my pain, you don't know what I've gone through, you can't judge me, my experience has shown me it means (x), so I'm smarter and better than you."

That's my opinion.


Love is an emotion.
Not a god.
You don't believe in love.
You feel it.
Feelings and emotions have a purpose.
Mostly to get you to think and be aware, not wallow in brain chemistry.


Everything is another name of pain for some people.

Some people have absolutely no idea how to identify their feelings of love or how to respond to it. Some people have never really been around loving relationships or communities.

Sometimes they seek out the things that will cause them pain.
Either because they only know how to respond to pain, they search for the familiar, or because they simply believe love is the absence of pain, and try to use others to take responsibility for or remove pain.

Well, first I'd say you don't "fall in" love.

That initial feeling you get at the start of a new relationship is biochemical process in action. It makes you feel good.

That isn't love.

Love is developed over time.

Someone who is going from relationship to relationship is like a heroin junkie seeking that initial high. And that person shares the same addict mentality as the smack junkie.

Avoid both.

Bigamy

I felt it.... but it was that word itself that made me top believe that it's just a word.