well I used to be on a dumb site called mylol.com, now that I'm 19 hopefully I'll have better luck here so message me plz ^^ I try my best to be a good friend, I dont make what I call fake friends, I only make real friends, I try to see the good in people! I believe in good morals and having fun, when something serious comes up I will set fun aside and be serious, I'm looking for a relationship here. a woman who will love me for me! :)

Why just use one site at a time?
Why not all of them at the same time?
Dividing your time up between them?

Other than that I don't really understand what you are doing.

I mean

What are you looking for?

This is a little confusing.

As far as you know I'm not a woman, but I feel if I was then if I were to read this I would probably think to myself:
"Ohhhhhh! He's one of those that tries to play the friends first game while waiting to jump on me to tell me he loves me.
Like George Costanza with the ulterior motives.
He probably doesn't have a lot of confidence.
So it's like he's saying 'paweese be ma fwend!' So I'll feel sorry for him and see him as nice and harmless, and then once he's in my life he just sticks, gets clingy, and start trying to shove the friendship into more, and if I don't come to the magical realization about how wonderful and loving person he is and fall head over heels when he wants me to, then I'm the psycho btch who doesn't know what she wants."

Or I'd just be confused about what you want, and any confusion is easily solved by moving on to the next profile.


I don't know. That's just my hypothetical thought process.

My experience has been to not focus on the type of relationship or feelings I am looking for, looking to feel, or looking to make others feel, so much as focus on what type of person I am, what I do, what they can expect in a conversation with me.
That's always worked for me in getting dates offline.
But I'm not you.

Maybe your way is better. I haven't put much effort into actual online dating for a long time.

I see what you mean, all I was doing was just trying to do was just give a little info about me, I didnt mean to offend and I apologize for it :/

well I cant edit it to fix it now, but umm I'll see what I can do, yes I have confidence and no I dont play games like that, I have severe eczema asthma and many other medical issues, so no I dont play games like that with people, I am pretty much confined to my own home because of my immune system, I can go out just not often, I have endured thoughts of suicide and thoughts about why god did this to me. I'm not perfect and I dont take criticism too well but I try to, what I'm looking for here is a long lasting relationship. As I stated earlier I cant get out much so online dating is my only shot at finding someone. just because I cant get out much dosnt mean I'm weak either I am strong in my own way. I am a loyal friend, it takes a lot to break my trust which is actually one of my downfalls, I'm too trusting. I believe in helping people and I wish I could get out more to help more but my body is so medically fragile that I cant. I guess what I'm saying is I'm looking for friends and a relationship which is hard to find online.