I have been seeing a lot of posts on here saying they are looking for a serious relationship, I need a boyfriend, etc.

Woman we are not supposed to be searching for a husband. In the Bible it says The man is so seek out his wife, and when they do it will be a treasure. Woman these are the days to start praying and fasting for what you want. God hears your requests and if you trust Him with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind- you will know that He has someone hand selected for you. He is God, He knows how to bring you together. He created the universe and this world, you can't trust Him with a simple task as your husband?
Pray for your husbands heart, pray for his protection, pray for the qualities you want in him. There are many books out there about praying for your husband- I recommend picking up one. It's not to late to start praying. Even when you have your kids. Start praying for their future spouse from the time they are born.
Those who are hedged in on Gods plan will walk in patience. Perhaps your heart needs healing, or God wants to work on some spiritual fruit in your life.
Perhaps Jesus wants a more intimate relationship with you first- because first and foremost Jesus is our husband and we submit to Him first. Be patient because God will only give you the absolute best for you.

tanks

I'd imagine he's preocupied with other things right now rather than pairing people up.