Lust is an instant feeling that you feel for another. Love is an overall package about a person and it take years to fully feel that. You cannot determine love in a few meetings to know you have found love.

I hear a lot of people on this site claim, they prefer to have sex with the one they love. Don’t you think maybe it is that lust feelings that pulls another closer to you and not love? Sex, living with the person, knowing the inside out of a person creates that love for that person. Right?

And, how many times do you fall in love to know love then have sex. There is no guarantee with that concept, its a gimmick! Not many reaches this stage because most are confused with the two. Believing love is an instant feeling...have you ever wonder why that so called love never worked? yea, it usually don't amount to anything which it supports the concept that love takes time to know its love then to keep it. You will find these are the people wanting what looks right and complains what the heck is wrong, and why can't they find true love. Derr!

Don’t get me wrong, I promote love and I want to feel the love to the one I am making love to but I ain’t going to kid myself to think that is the only way for me to get to, to really enjoy sex.

Don't be hard on yourself/yourselves.

Have a beat day All!

all this talk about sex...hmmmm maybe I should try it

wots sex

I don't think love exists anymore.

coco maybe you and I should figure that out together

hmmm....sex....i think i remember it...it's that thing that....nope that's dinner

is it that other think that....nope that's coffee

god, it's been to long....

hmmm...maybe i can think of it if i think really hard.......

I'm confusing showers with a menage a trois, does that count???

its when you get all hot and wet at the same time, ooops thats a rain shower on a hot summer day,sorry.

lust when you can't stop thinking about them...and every little thing remind you of them.....every song, even stuff that you want to do with them or to them....is so intense....Love is where the lust is now gone....and it goes to a more mature level...

Nice to have both...ulalalala

is it ok to have lust and love for myself?

can't we just have a little lust mixed in with love???

Yes Gyps, thats it.

btw Gypsy, I love this devil baby pic, it got me giggling about...and almost scared of the wee cherub devil

ok so 1/2 cup of lust and 1/2 of love and what else do we need??? sugar? spice? spandex shorts?

Ohhhhhhhhhh devil baby has been with me a long time!!!!!

I'll take some lovin with a side of lustin and I'll have that to go pls!

I never confuse 'Lust' with "Love"..But with a little bit of luck, and some good vibes, we can have it all..

i don't know how other people see it but my definition of love.

Love is when you go through hell and high water for and with someone, knowing that it is you 2 against the world and against all that oppose your relationship, and no matter how bad life gets, or how much **** the world throws at you, you are still willing to stand side by side to fight it, knowing that you are in it together until the end and be happy with that, knowing you would never want to have it any other way, giving a constant 110% into the relationship and knowing you need nothing in return as long as that person stands by you, and respects you for being all you can be which is just you. and even when that person is gone, you still love them. no matter how much they have made you cry or how many times they have done you wrong, you still love that person. and you know if they knock on your door at 3 am in the pouring rain and have no one else to turn to, you are there for them. and when everyone else thinks they are the most horrible person in the world, you are the only one standing there to see them as a human being who makes mistakes and seeing that person as all they can be. accepting the inperfections along with the areas of perfection.


lust is oh i so love you then 3 days later when i have met something more interesting, i don't think about you anymore.

you may not know when you love someone.....but trust me when it is gone, you will know how much did and still do.


just my opinion

Lust is not a bad thing, it is what excites you about the person you like...its a start for a good thing but it is not really love till you both give it a chance.

you didn't answer my question Sin...is it ok to have Lust and Love for myself?

Jtevans, ...whatever turns ya on sweety