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Topic: Closure???
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Wed 10/24/07 04:43 PM
Quick question for everyone....

I was dating this guy for a few weeks. all of a sudden he quit calling and texting. we have been friends for a few years. just wondering if i should call him and ask why...

or just leave it alone?

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Wed 10/24/07 04:45 PM
I'd leave it alone and just cut my losses and move on.

Barticus's photo
Wed 10/24/07 04:47 PM
at least try to talk to him once or twice, but if he doesn't seem cooperative, screw him...in a bad way that is

bobbyblue's photo
Wed 10/24/07 04:49 PM
If you are good friends you have the right to ask why.

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Wed 10/24/07 04:50 PM
I am agree with bobby blue

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Wed 10/24/07 04:52 PM
LovelyLibra - I hate that when someone makes you wonder about things. I think when two people are interested in each other they should not make the other come to this unless they are not really into the relationship.

I would take up carnalsins's advice and cut your loses or text message him and ask if you two are still ok.

wildsideof35's photo
Wed 10/24/07 04:52 PM
Try to call once if no answer then that would be my answer to move on!!!! Life's too short to hang on!!!!!! Good Luck

dwtwin's photo
Wed 10/24/07 04:52 PM
how long has it been? a couple days or couple weeks?

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Wed 10/24/07 04:52 PM
We were...i'm just wondering if i did something or if he is just being stupid about the whole thing

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Wed 10/24/07 04:53 PM
last time we actually talked to eachother was 3 weeks ago

dwtwin's photo
Wed 10/24/07 04:56 PM
could be both if it's been 3 weeks though i think it's high time to let it go ohwell

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Wed 10/24/07 04:57 PM
yeah...just wanted to know what others thinks about it

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Wed 10/24/07 04:57 PM
Did you actually go out with each other physically or it is just phone calls and txt?

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Wed 10/24/07 04:58 PM
we physically dated for a while

dwtwin's photo
Wed 10/24/07 05:01 PM
was he dating other people at the same time?

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Wed 10/24/07 05:02 PM
If he just suddenly stopped talking with you and you had a friendship before anything else, I would probably try to figure out what happened. But that's just me. I guess it really just depends on how valuable you consider your past with him and whether you really want to know what happened--if for no other reason, than for closure.

That stated, I wish you well--not an easy situation.

Drew

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Wed 10/24/07 05:03 PM
dw....i don't think so but i'm not positive


thanks drew!

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Wed 10/24/07 05:09 PM
Well put Drew...
I would try some more but don't get pushy... try a few more time over a week not a day or two

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Wed 10/24/07 05:12 PM
i would leave it alone.. his loss.

He will probably try to call again later.. but ignore him.

grumble

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Wed 10/24/07 05:12 PM
he obviously didnt do the right thing and talk to u about how he was feeling...but i would still contact him and ask him whats up....u were friends so i would wanna know what he is thinking, and then depending on his answer decide form there.

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