Topic: value of bechlor relations
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Fri 03/04/16 10:27 PM
why we bechlors are not giving importance our relations by respect them, some one who trust at us consider us his/her part of life, and we are not giving them respect... we should understand the bechlor relations value, not to through others respect... give respect take respect... enjoy but not destroy the families respect...

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Fri 03/04/16 10:57 PM
Edited by SassyEuro2 on Fri 03/04/16 11:08 PM
I am trying to understand this..
You are 26 & in Pakistan.

Are you saying..in your culture..
that their is a stigma for men that are not married at your age ? And that your family should still respect you? And that you still have value ?



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Fri 03/04/16 11:46 PM
I think OP is against arranged marriages....and wants the family to respect his decisions...to look for a bride on M2....just saying..

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Sat 03/05/16 12:01 AM

I think OP is against arranged marriages....and wants the family to respect his decisions...to look for a bride on M2....just saying..


You could be right. At least we are both trying to take the culture into account

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Sat 03/05/16 12:06 AM
It is a natural path to what is likely, a foregone conclusion....In the end, it does not really matter, love or arranged marriage...its still a 50/50 crap shoot...lol....

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Sat 03/05/16 12:20 AM

It is a natural path to what is likely, a foregone conclusion....In the end, it does not really matter, love or arranged marriage...its still a 50/50 crap shoot...lol....


Amazingly.. Arranged marriages last longer. Of course 50+ years doesn't mean a happy or healthy union.
But culture, religion, family values, keeps them together (legally anyway).
I think... The vows are taken 'literally' or more seriously. While the rest of us see or live in a 'disposable society'.. From cheap razors to relationships & everything in between.



Everybody.... Start packing.. We are moving out.:laughing:

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Sat 03/05/16 12:30 AM
Yup, the marriage could last longer than the cheap razors....but we really dont have a clue about whats happening in the relationship...the cheap razor, we know will last only a month or four shaves....lol...But, yes, culture, beliefs etc...do make for a vow being taken more seriously. We have "for better or worse"...but never "for good"...maybe that should be inserted somewhere....just saying...