Topic: HEY PLEASE CAN YOU TELL ME THE DISADIVANTAGE AND ADIVANTAGE
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Mon 11/12/07 01:44 AM
HI EVERYONE CAN YOU EXPLAIN TO ME THE DISADIVANTAGE AND ADIVANTAGE OF DATING ONLINE

shadow_princess's photo
Mon 11/12/07 01:48 AM
disadvantage...people lie
advantage u make alotta friends

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Mon 11/12/07 01:55 AM
well one advantage is that you keep that person at a safe distance until you are ready to move to the next step, say a phone call. You can freely ask them anything you want to and get to know more about them first than if you just saw them at the mall or something.

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Mon 11/12/07 02:09 AM
advantage: you're not really 'stuck' talking/entertaining that person as you would say, at a bar...you can filter out the likes/dislikes even before you meet them over the phone/email/messaging

disadvantage: the rejection feels worse when and if you don't ever get to see that person again AFTER the first meeting regardless of potential whatever...e.g. you look nothing like your picture, just worse, your personality sucks/worse than over the phone/email...i'd rather get shot down or not get looked at at a club/bar as opposed to hyping up the phone calls/emails before the first meeting only to find out that something is 'wrong' with you from that other person's point of view...

i've been able to experience both the advantage/disadvantages..sucks either way when/if they're not what you're looking for...therefore moving on to the next...

but i agree that you DO make a lot of friends!! hey, friends know other friends to introduce too!

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Mon 11/12/07 02:16 AM
THANK YOU GUYS FOR YOU RESPONDING ME BACK I APPRECIATE IT