Hi there,
I do believe in finding a man who's nice to me. who can appreciate me as a person. who cares about me even when things aren't going well. I would do all these things for a man too.
I feel that love is more then just feeling from your heart, it's an action too, meaning that if you love someone enough, you're willing to struggle with that person too. The person you are with should be loved, appreciated, and cherished. Not only as a lover, but as a very best friend:)
Hope this helps!