(Ok ladies don't get mad)

Why does it seem (to us guys) that women would rather be treated like sh*t???

Don't get mad now,
We could ask you the same,only reverse that.

I always say the best way to get rid of a women is to buy her flowers and take her out to dinner.

I wanna be a nice guy.

I always say the best way to lose a man is to treat him like a king, and watch him walk away with a woman who treats him like dirt............even had male friends admit to me that they would rather be with someone who treats them lousy...........doesn't make sense to me........so now I know why Im single............got to go and take more witch lessons

Damn I was expecting way more replies. LOL!

I wish a woman would treat me like a king.

It does happen on both sides. I think it honestly has to do with the old saying, "opposites attract". Good people (men AND women) are attracted to people who treat them like crap.

Of course, here's something else to chew on. People think that a "good person" is really too good to be true. Good people, for some reason, seem to think that they don't "measure up" to another good person, so they lower their standards and date slime. Good people feel that either:

1. They "know what they're getting" with a bad person, and figure they can get used to it.
2.They figure they can change a bad person into good.
3.Good people have the mentality that, "The bad person cheated on every one of their past lovers, and treated their past lovers like dog crap, but they won't/can't do that to ME!"

That's one man's humble opinion.

Once again, we are all animals. The reason it seems that men and women are attracted to those that treat them lousy is that it's not how we are treated that kicks off attraction. Instictively it is about two things, survival and reproduction. Women have a tendancy to go more towards the "alpha male" type. With men its pretty much the same way. Simply by being nice to someone you are not showing your ability to aid in the survival of the opposite sex, but you are also failing to show your ability to produce, protect, and raise young. Kind of humbling to think about. I'm not saying that to attract someone you simply treat them like Sh$#. That's not the case at all. You can treat them very well. People get infactuation confused with love constantly. Love is something earned over time and has a lot to do with respect and comfort. Initial attraction, or infactuation, is something that is instictive. I don't mean to try to sound like a know-it-all, but i am former military and a combat veteran. When you live like an animal for a year it kinda gives you a different perspective on things. This is just a theory life, and love are too complicated for any one man or woman to figure out.

Nicely said ^^^

im changing my profile and giving myself a sh*tty attitude...the emails should start pouring in...

They're may be truth to that. Thanks for the insight.

BR, not all women want to be treated like crap. Alot of women are attracted to the "bad boy" types for some reason, i'm even guilty of having had a few bad boy crushes. but after dating a couple, i realize they dont have the potential to be a good boyfriend, they're just selfish and disrespectful and only in it for what they can get. So i say bring on the nice guys!!

We've all let some good guys or gals slip away. Sad we can't see that before it's too late.

What ever happened to treating someone the way that you want to be treated?? I don't want to be treated like a princess, I'd rather be treated as an equal in a relationship. To me it all boils down to a give and take...each being equal to 100%

Did that sound right??