Topic: I'm tired
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Sat 04/22/17 10:12 PM
I'm tired of making new friends. I'm tired of leaving and friends falling off. I'm tired of friends leaving me in the dust. I'm tired of being the rebound guy. I'm tired of trying to find a place that I fit in. I'm tired of constantly over thinking things that I could ignore. I'm tired of going to dark places when things should be looking up. I'm tired of bringing up the past with no solution to the future. I'm tired:pensive:

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Sat 04/22/17 10:19 PM
Hey Buddy..Trust yourself, think positive and never give up.

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Sat 04/22/17 10:34 PM
hello ome317!

i pray for you that Yahweh and indra restore your soul,renew your spirit, and strengthen you for the battle...

it seems a hard, painful and lonely struggle, but you can do it...

adapt,improvise,overcome...

good hunting...


peace/out


vagyrnomad111

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Sat 04/22/17 10:46 PM
Ome, I kinda know what u may feel like. I have been there myself way back when. Don't give up, never give up. Search your soul, get honest with yourself and LEARN to take responsibility for your own actions. Blaming others is no way to heal a broken heart.... Never think u r alone, many, many more people feel as u do. Cheer up, the future is so bright, u gotta wear shades, :sunglasses:

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Sat 04/22/17 11:38 PM

Hello ome .. I peeked at your profile .. you know what you are 19 years of age and being way too hard on yourself . I see a handsome young man with a great smile who is studying and perhaps craving more independence and excitement in His life . I am not sure if you are talking about online friendships or real world ., but don't fret too much if you mean online .. the internet is a fickle place . Focus on what you like to do and put yourself out of your comfort zone .. you will make friends easier when there is a shared interest . As for dating.. breathe and count to ten ., you are not alone in your search for a girlfriend.. just look how many people are online and using dating sites with marginal success .. what does that tell you ??? At 19 .. you have the world at your feet .. what you do and how you go about it is up to you . Have seen several of your posts and really Nice having you in the forums ., there are genuine people here .. just a lot older .. laughing . But I am sure a lot of young girls read the forums . It is a great way to showcase the kind of man you are . smooched waving


Blondey u said that way better than I did, thanks :sunglasses: hope is still a powerful asset to imbrace

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Sat 04/22/17 11:49 PM
youre way too young to be tired and give up. you dont have the same excuse as us privileged old people winking always think: the best is yet to come :angel:

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Sat 04/22/17 11:54 PM
Take it easy mate.

I understand the bit were you say you over think things you should ignore. I used to do the same thing myself and still do at times although less and less now.
Try to snap out of that habit, it will eat you inside out and drive you half crazy.

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Sun 04/23/17 03:32 AM

Hello ome .. I peeked at your profile .. you know what you are 19 years of age and being way too hard on yourself . I see a handsome young man with a great smile who is studying and perhaps craving more independence and excitement in His life . I am not sure if you are talking about online friendships or real world ., but don't fret too much if you mean online .. the internet is a fickle place . Focus on what you like to do and put yourself out of your comfort zone .. you will make friends easier when there is a shared interest . As for dating.. breathe and count to ten ., you are not alone in your search for a girlfriend.. just look how many people are online and using dating sites with marginal success .. what does that tell you ??? At 19 .. you have the world at your feet .. what you do and how you go about it is up to you . Have seen several of your posts and really Nice having you in the forums ., there are genuine people here .. just a lot older .. laughing . But I am sure a lot of young girls read the forums . It is a great way to showcase the kind of man you are . smooched waving


Ditto...Hugs to you ome, hang in there. I remember a while back, my youngest son felt "tired" as well. He was frustrated because he just didn't seem to fit in anywhere and all those around him had their own niche in life. I told him that things come to us, sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly, just don't give up. He's very happy now and found his own unique niche. I will leave you with a poem that also helped me as well when I too felt "tired"


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Sun 04/23/17 03:38 AM
Hello

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Sun 04/23/17 06:30 AM

I'm tired of making new friends. I'm tired of leaving and friends falling off. I'm tired of friends leaving me in the dust. I'm tired of being the rebound guy. I'm tired of trying to find a place that I fit in. I'm tired of constantly over thinking things that I could ignore. I'm tired of going to dark places when things should be looking up. I'm tired of bringing up the past with no solution to the future. I'm tired:pensive:


2 Tylenol PM's.. and a good night sleep.

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Tue 05/02/17 11:18 AM
Edited by Mike6615 on Tue 05/02/17 11:18 AM

I'm tired of making new friends. I'm tired of leaving and friends falling off. I'm tired of friends leaving me in the dust. I'm tired of being the rebound guy. I'm tired of trying to find a place that I fit in. I'm tired of constantly over thinking things that I could ignore. I'm tired of going to dark places when things should be looking up. I'm tired of bringing up the past with no solution to the future. I'm tired:pensive:


Your issues at 19 are nothing compared to discovering you have breast cancer or the like. Nothing.

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Tue 05/02/17 12:25 PM
Hey man this was something I just needed to get off my chest. I appreciated all of the nice things people had to say. I never said my issues were more or less important than someone else's. I'm sorry if I offended you. But if you want to talk about it man I'm willing to listen. I'm sure everyone on here wouldn't mind hearing your story. We all have our own crosses to bear. My Grandma died of blood cancer on my birthday which is coming up pretty soon. So she's been on my mind a lot lately that's why I've been down in the dumps. If you're looking for a fight I'm not interested. But if you just want your story told I'm all ears. Every one is hurting some more than others.

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Tue 05/02/17 04:28 PM

Hey man this was something I just needed to get off my chest. I appreciated all of the nice things people had to say. I never said my issues were more or less important than someone else's. I'm sorry if I offended you. But if you want to talk about it man I'm willing to listen. I'm sure everyone on here wouldn't mind hearing your story. We all have our own crosses to bear. My Grandma died of blood cancer on my birthday which is coming up pretty soon. So she's been on my mind a lot lately that's why I've been down in the dumps. If you're looking for a fight I'm not interested. But if you just want your story told I'm all ears. Every one is hurting some more than others.


(You didn't offend me. At 19 you have the rest of your life to feel better. Good luck.)

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Tue 05/02/17 04:52 PM
im tired to i need a massageofftopic

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Tue 05/02/17 04:52 PM

im tired to i need a massageofftopic

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Tue 05/02/17 07:31 PM

I'm tired of making new friends. I'm tired of leaving and friends falling off. I'm tired of friends leaving me in the dust. I'm tired of being the rebound guy. I'm tired of trying to find a place that I fit in. I'm tired of constantly over thinking things that I could ignore. I'm tired of going to dark places when things should be looking up. I'm tired of bringing up the past with no solution to the future. I'm tired:pensive:



I feel tired after reading all that tears

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Mon 05/08/17 11:52 AM
Edited by mysticalview21 on Mon 05/08/17 11:59 AM

I'm tired of making new friends. I'm tired of leaving and friends falling off. I'm tired of friends leaving me in the dust. I'm tired of being the rebound guy. I'm tired of trying to find a place that I fit in. I'm tired of constantly over thinking things that I could ignore. I'm tired of going to dark places when things should be looking up. I'm tired of bringing up the past with no solution to the future. I'm tired:pensive:





backs out slowly ... laugh


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Mon 05/08/17 11:58 AM

Hey man this was something I just needed to get off my chest. I appreciated all of the nice things people had to say. I never said my issues were more or less important than someone else's. I'm sorry if I offended you. But if you want to talk about it man I'm willing to listen. I'm sure everyone on here wouldn't mind hearing your story. We all have our own crosses to bear. My Grandma died of blood cancer on my birthday which is coming up pretty soon. So she's been on my mind a lot lately that's why I've been down in the dumps. If you're looking for a fight I'm not interested. But if you just want your story told I'm all ears. Every one is hurting some more than others.



there are people fighting... frustrated


wow... you might have said why you where tired ...
in the beginning ... oh yes... people we love pass away ...
that's mostly a given ... sorry for your loss...