So tell me would you chat with me or message me based on my profile and pictures

Ok I read your profile... first off I would tell you that being recently separated and having your four children living at home with you, you are a long way from being ready to date.

Your profile is too wordy and you only have one pic. Upload more pictures as it is one way of proving you are the person in the picture.

Good luck :-)

P.S. - Your profile says you joined in 2014 which means you were married then and already looking. May I suggest that you deactivate this account and open a new account so what you are saying in your profile that you are new in the dating scene and the date you joined this site match.

No, I wouldn't chat with you based on your profile.