Topic: I'd appreciate an evaluation
Anthony3180's photo
Tue 05/16/17 08:58 AM
hello, I'd appreciate an evaluation of my profile ... is it detailed enough, or is it too long ? just trying to be honest and descriptive.

thanks!

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Tue 05/16/17 09:23 AM
Hi Anthony,

Your profile looks okay, except for the photos. They are a little fuzzy. Mingle has a photo editor that might help with that. Also I would take out the dark one, or just add a couple more that are easier to see and maybe show what you are interested in. A full body photo works a little better than head shots.

And I noticed you didn't answer about whether you have kids. There are different options to choose from, so you might want to post an answer to that. Unanswered sections in your profile lead to suspicion sometimes.

Welcome to Mingle!
Best wishes to you.

Anthony3180's photo
Tue 05/16/17 09:34 AM
thanks. but those pix are the best I've got, and the children part was an oversight. but what I have seen is that a lot of Ladies have practically no profile at all.

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Tue 05/16/17 09:41 AM

thanks. but those pix are the best I've got, and the children part was an oversight. but what I have seen is that a lot of Ladies have practically no profile at all.


They're fine, just consider adding more as you get them.

As far as the ladies who have practically nothing in their profile, there could be many reasons. It's your choice who you want to contact in regards to their profile.

Anthony3180's photo
Tue 05/16/17 10:18 AM
this seems to be somewhat of a double standard inasmuch as you mentioned my oversight regarding " children" on my profile as a possible cause for suspicion? which I corrected (it took 3 times). I'm not sure that this site is going to work out. I'll give it until the. end of the month.

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Tue 05/16/17 10:35 AM

this seems to be somewhat of a double standard inasmuch as you mentioned my oversight regarding " children" on my profile as a possible cause for suspicion? which I corrected (it took 3 times). I'm not sure that this site is going to work out. I'll give it until the. end of the month.


You asked for an evaluation of your profile, that's what I gave you. I would tell others and have told others the same thing if they asked for an evaluation in the "Rate Me" forum.

I don't know why others leave theirs blank, only have speculations and it's not fair to speculate, so I won't.

It's your choice if you stay or go, but expecting others to have something in their profile just because you do is unrealistic. There are threads through out the forums that the members discuss what they look for in profiles and their thoughts about the profiles that contain little or no information.

Give it time and try not to draw conclusions right away. Mingle is one of the better sites around, mostly because of the forums. That includes paid sites as well. smile2

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Tue 05/16/17 10:51 AM
surprised

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Tue 05/16/17 02:07 PM


this seems to be somewhat of a double standard inasmuch as you mentioned my oversight regarding " children" on my profile as a possible cause for suspicion? which I corrected (it took 3 times). I'm not sure that this site is going to work out. I'll give it until the. end of the month.


You asked for an evaluation of your profile, that's what I gave you. I would tell others and have told others the same thing if they asked for an evaluation in the "Rate Me" forum.

I don't know why others leave theirs blank, only have speculations and it's not fair to speculate, so I won't.

It's your choice if you stay or go, but expecting others to have something in their profile just because you do is unrealistic. There are threads through out the forums that the members discuss what they look for in profiles and their thoughts about the profiles that contain little or no information.

Give it time and try not to draw conclusions right away. Mingle is one of the better sites around, mostly because of the forums. That includes paid sites as well. smile2



I agree with everything that Piscesmoon02 had said.

Anthony3180, thank you so much for giving the site at least until the end of the month... so very kind of you... others would dish us out in a day or two.

But as Piscesmoon02 said it is up to you if you stay or go >>>>>>> Exit Door

Good luck

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Tue 05/16/17 02:14 PM

this seems to be somewhat of a double standard inasmuch as you mentioned my oversight regarding " children" on my profile as a possible cause for suspicion? which I corrected (it took 3 times). I'm not sure that this site is going to work out. I'll give it until the. end of the month.

'Kin state of you, if the cap fits wear it. You asked for opinions.

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Tue 05/16/17 02:19 PM
I don't even have to go check on profile anymore. All said here...

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Tue 05/16/17 03:06 PM
Edited by greeneyes148 on Tue 05/16/17 03:07 PM

this seems to be somewhat of a double standard inasmuch as you mentioned my oversight regarding " children" on my profile as a possible cause for suspicion? which I corrected (it took 3 times). I'm not sure that this site is going to work out. I'll give it until the. end of the month.


Well, we will all be on "pins and needles" waiting for you to decide it you will stay or go.

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Tue 05/16/17 09:59 PM
i think someone has made his own evaluation of the whole situation already and either got scared or just got tired way too early lol

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Tue 05/16/17 10:01 PM
moral of the story be kind to people who are kind and just be quiet if you dont know if what youre saying will get positive feedback :angel: