That's a tall order to fill my friend. I have two kids myself and I take care of my 87 year old father who resides with us. I work full-time because there are bills to pay and mouths to feed. When I come home there are also stalls that need cleaning and horses that need to be fed. Oh and let's not forget about dinner and everything to do with the house too. Dude, the welfare of MY children is my responsibility. I help with homework, go to parent teacher conferences, take them to the doctor, and do what needs to be done for them. I am their parent.
Look for a great babysitter on care.com or a nanny