My father was a good man and a good soldier ...
he had bought his grave site some yrs ago ...

I go pretty regular to put flowers on his grave ...
an a small plaque with his name on it ...
he does not have a head stone becouse... we did not have all of the info for him from world war.. I believe I have enough now to get the plate needed to give him the rest of his free veteran grave marker...

I have asked in the past ...to please do not remove what I put on his grave ... I am out there enough to keep it nice even doing my own weeding ... but the time I was out before today they removed most all I had what was on his grave ... solar lights... wreath done in red white and blue ... a plaque a cross... I had made with his name on it ... gone ...
there is know excuse in the book for them to have taken most all away but one light... they did not give my father a flag on memorial day ...like the other vets at this Cemetery... but I had all the red white and blue on his grave to begin with + thought they just listened to me... by not touching his grave ...
well I went today the wreath was gone 1/2 of what I had there was gone ... they took away ... would you not think... that is disgracing ...someone that is dead ... I was the one to tell him or thought to mention to start to pay for a grave ... and he did that ... very hard for me to bring up ... not him though and really new nothing of him being in the veterans part ... just a crematory on his way to the golf course ... well I went today... where I had to remake his plaque and put more flowers on the wreath ... got there wreath was gone... so I had to be a little creative but it works till I can get the other started ... personalty they where being mean... not to give him a flag on memorial day ...again thought it was ok ... had to ask this crematory twice ...to make his grave flat... was so lopsided and unreal I even had to ask for that ... very disrespectful... and disrespectful to him more... and believe me if I had the $ I would move him out of there ... and find a better place ... but so this is life ... I could not have asked for a better father ... he had every thing in him for his spirit to be great ... and he lived and died with respect ... and now this... believe me I wanted to be mean like them ... but my dad taught me to have respect for the elders and the deceased ... * Happy Fathers Day* Dad* Always Loved *

I may be a bit paranoid ... on this but I can't now believe the steps... I have to go to get more info ... seems I should have not said the truth about his marker ... but I feel I was honest ... and felt I am again just getting the run around on this ... died in 2012 ... and have been working on this that long... he has payed for every thing on the grave plot except what the veterans give you ... a free plaque...to put on top ...
I have notice one good thing people are putting more flowers on their loved ones grave flags any thing they want to put on ... I shared some times with my flowers for theirs to... when they had none ..

so something good came out of this for others ...