I agree with Crystal, And Gemini or not, women don't like being ignored. If you were communicating regularly and then didn't say anything for three days, it's like leaving someone hanging, wondering what's going on. Communication is important. Giving someone space is respectful, but only when they've asked for it or you have asked them first if they would like it. Maybe she didn't want that space!

I'm ignoring you? ...................
Yes, you can say that for both men and women

I have a problem understanding myself on a good day so how do people expect me to understand them?

I don't know Mikey, are you?

Yes, you said women don't like being ignored

Well you silly man, you're talking to me right now, so that's not ignoring, now is it!

I did for a few minutes
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Hmmm... Well zheetor..

You gave some more background to the story that you did not include in your original post. I wasnt aware that you didnt talk to her for 3 days, which actually provokes more questions for me.

Who was INITIATING most of the messages? Her or you?

If YOU were the one, who was initiating most of the messages , and you stopped all of a sudden, then why couldn't SHE have take some initiative of her own, and contacted you?

Now if SHE was the one initiating most of the contact, and she stopped for 3 days, then I would think that the onus could be on YOU to take up the slack, and call to see if she was okay.

Communication of any kind comprises of giving and taking, and whats wrong with taking turns , and even filling in when the other person falls short? Who said ONE PERSON had to be responsible all the time for that?

Also, I didnt know about your 3 day silence at the time I wrote my first response , but I have something general to say about abrupt silences. If I have NOT been ignored by someone before,or have NOT recently had an argument with them, then if I do not hear from them for a while, I do NOT assume that they are deliberately ignoring me . I consider that they might be busy, sick, or going through something traumatic , and in a general sense, both parties need to be more understanding in that regard.
And BOTH should make the effort to find out if the other person is okay when there is an unexplained abrupt silence. And I maintain my original position that when someone ONLINE abruptly starts ignoring you for no apparent reason, its often because they have found someone else, and it is in your best interest to MOVE ON.

Putting that aside, if she is so angry about your 3 day silence, then the adult thing to do would be to explain just that, instead of ignoring you. And if thats the way she is going to deal with conflict from this early, then prepare for the silent treatment misery in a future relationship ,everytime you have a disagreement.


Finally, it couldnt have hurt for you to apologise if she felt you hurt her in some way. If you didnt do so, a genuine heart-felt apology might have diffused the situation a bit . If she refused to accept that apology, then I see no need for grovelling with flowers . She isnt a child ,and she isnt your girlfriend. The offense in my opinion was not that unforgivable. A genuine heartfelt apology should be enough.

And I have a question. Why did you assume that she needed space? Was it because you were the one always initiating the message? Or did you just randomly decide that on your own? Maybe you could have asked for her input on that. Assumption is often not helpful in those situations.

Looking at the situation from different sides, I really dont see why one person should be demonised in the situation you described. Seems to me that BOTH of you could have acted more maturely

how about a gemini man

dude that horoscope thing doesnt work anymore. i broke up with 2 gemini women not bragging. but doesnt matter what her horo is their all different like any person you meet. also most of em are annoying after a while still trying to find that special one.

A tip: never give a woman too much of your time. we barely have time eitherways.

too much of your time? never? time is never wasted when its time spent on being happy.

well the meaning of the sentence is that im telling the guy with the problem, dont throw yourself on a lady much *in a polite way*. in other words some ladies do need space. also he did a mistake not a huge one too and apologized she didnt accept it move on.

likeness should be shared by both sides if she likes him as much as he likes her she'll text him back if she didnt she wont.

your a woman yourself a cute one too but out of my league. ever had a problem with a guy whose clingy ? thats what my tip meant.

space...hhhmm...what you say is correct .you will get whatever you do give and sometimes women do love it when they see they are being given more. perhaps it is really a case to case basis. not everyone is the same. not everyone needs what you assume they need ..communication is still the answer. good luck to you and yes it is not the horoscope that makes the person. thanks for saying im cute you are drawn to geminis i am an aries

Sounds a bit fishy to me

havent seen anything scarier in a while missing it

Me too, I often wonder how these Americans can survive, all the movies show it being invaded by aliens, ice age, meteors, monsters or some other disaster!

i guess ill be fed to piranhas if we ever dated . about the advice i honestly meant it for him not to be clingy after the info he shared. just didnt want to be rude about it. but at the end of it its hes life hes choices. just sharing opinions.

i have alot to learn and its true communication is the answer. im a bit too honest sometimes. but thats the help i could offer the guy so did my best. back to the honest part stalked your profile before i checked this thread and couldnt message you.
message is delivered though through this comment only one thing missing after your really cute is would have defiantly asked you for a date if i was older *i dont mean it offensively* your a seriously interesting lady after reading your bio. bless you and wish you the best in life.

now i feel old lol ... no worries and thanks...good luck again

oh god hahahahaha its just that i feel bad cause i dont believe in age but its a huge barrier to get past legally and in real life. woulda loved a grow older button for me.

also look at the positives. i rarely like a woman from her looks *i know its not much to make it up* but for real your cute/beautiful.
im a flight attendant i travel alot. iv seen alot and your one of the tops between the ladies i have seen in the real world and virtual world as in this site.
you dont only have the looks but also the mindset and the way you talk is nice/blessful.

i dont compliment women alot and im not saying it to make you feel better its the truth.
it was a pleasure meeting you to be honest.
excuse my English its not my main language.
and please dont count this as flirting.