I've posted so many of these things in the past couple weeks, I'm starving for so much advice. I've been seeing a girl for 3 weeks now, we are cuddling, and holding hands all the time. The only problem is we haven't kissed yet. I went in for the kiss tonight but she resisted and I then asked if I could kiss her because I was curious. She is pretty self conscious, she said she's afraid her breath is bad, and then she said she is a bad kisser. How can I get that first kiss out of her?

Drown yourself and hope she knows CPR.

Ok, that was really uncalled for. And on that note, goodnight!

I'll give that a try

Three weeks and no first kiss?

It ain't lookin' good.

What if I told her to close her eyes and sneak the kiss in?

You're better off figuring out the why no kiss, than trying to get the kiss in.

It shouldn't be rocket science at this point.....

its a simple answer man.. she does not like to kiss.. and if you are one who Likes to kiss.. then COUGH run COUGH...

either that or you got bad breathe :) im gonna say shes just not a fan of kissing

slip her a mickey

i think those are reasons of why not to kiss you... thats really odd... but at the same time your holdin hands and cuddling? Hmm stop doing and that and let her know your playing with her feelings, lay it out and be prepared to take the honest truth....

brian

LMFAO!

Can you kiss when this comes into play?

and if that fails, slip her a mickey

well cheryl if you read the first paragraph I wrote you would see why, she said she is self conscious. She is a virgin as well.

doesnt matter this is a kiss, i can understand being 15, but if she had never kissed before then this could be, let her know that you cant keep having her playing with your emotions

so should i straight out ask her why she won't kiss me then?

I read it Steven, and my reading comprehension is pretty good.

I maintain my position. No kiss after three weeks of dating and there *is* cuddling and handholding..... something is amiss is all I'm saying.

I had to look at your profile to see how old you were. How old is she? (And I'm not making fun of the virginity thing.... I was a virgin for entirely too long.)

She is going to be 26 in a few weeks

Yes. At 26, her issues are unusual.

I know she really likes me too because we had a date tonight that was supposed to be 8:30 to watch a show that we both really like, but she called me up and asked if I wanted to go to dinner with her first. She took me to a nice japanese restaurant. After, we went to her house and she asked if she bored me, and I told her no. I asked her the same, if I bored her, she said if I bored her she wouldn't have asked me to dinner.