4 Ways to Figure Out If You're Ready for the Right Person or Not!

How do you know you’ve committed to the right person…how do you know?

You Don't! The real question is, How long do you want to be single and alone? Once you figure that out you are ready for a committed relationship with a person.

1. Assess how you look at a person image. Body Type Calculators [give to you on your shoulders between your nose. Two Eyes]! They chose, not your brain or your head but your Eyes are in control. Your heart "feelings" comes 3 months later or 3yrs later.

The Body Type Calculator can be used for males or females to determine "body shape" based on bust, waist, and hip (BWH) circumference measurements.

The Body Type Calculator can be used for females to determine "body shape" based on bust, waist, and hip (BWH) circumference measurements. Note that only the "four most common female body shapes" are calculated and are based on societal standards that were, ironically, developed around the height of the civil rights movement in the 1960s. Note that "ideal body type" is subjective and largely arbitrary and that the calculator is not intended to be a serious indication of health or an ideal that must be met.

Bust Size
Waist Size
Hip Size
body measure

Most common female and male body shapes

Apple (triangle downwards) Ages (20 to 30)generalized only!
This body shape describes a person who has broader shoulders and bust or chest than they do hips or butt. These people are putting on an image to date and are young and carefree to the world they see no image only a beating heart.

Banana, or straight for some men are called a bean post or pencil(rectangular) Ages (30 to 40)generalized only!
This body shape describes a person who typically has waist measurements that are less than 9 inches smaller than the hip or bust measurements. Tall and Slender happy and jolly.

Pear, spoon, or bell (triangle upwards) Ages (40 to 50)generalized only!
This body shape describes a person who has hip measurements greater than their bust measurements. for women it is called sexy for men it is called a beer belly. most have been divorced or widowed.

Hourglass or curvy, (triangles opposing, facing inwards)Ages (50 to 70)generalized only!
This body shape (typically presented as the "ideal") describes a person with hips, and bust measurements nearly equal in size, with an even waist measurement. These people are comfortable in their own skins, life has treated them well in society.

2. Ask yourself: Can you stop thinking about past relationships? Are you ready to find a new person, a different type of person, a person that is not compared to so the image you have in the past is not reflected in another relationship. Can your Eyes See something NEW and not something Old, Outdated, or Expired. They are out of your life for a reason. So make the best of it and Move on with your life start anew, ANEW LIFE with A NEW PERSON!

If I had an old toaster and it always burnt the toast or maybe it just stopped working. Do I stop eating burnt toast, or do I look for a New Toaster? Do you want it simple, complex with many adjustments, do you have to have a color or a shape? These are important questions before you buy your new toaster. Or are you happy with the one that was given to you on your birthday this year?

3. Can you easily imagine being with a new person in your life? in your home or their home? Can you adjust to looking at, being around and sitting next to a new person? Can you be yourself and give them a chance to fit into your lifestyle. That is one of the hardest things to do in life. Give them a chance try it for 3 months and get to know them if in 3months you can't handle it then you know your not ready to date anyone. You are still holding on to the past relationships.

4. Determine if you need to do some self-work. If you have gotten to this part of the question, and you have thought of the last few people you have dated or been on dates with you have realized you didn't give them a chance nor did you allow yourself get over the past. Don't you think its about time to love yourself so you can love another person in return? Confidence is a Key to Relationships.