I'm totally agree

The physical side catches the eye, but it is the personality that catches the heart. So I’ll go with Personality any day.

depends...

sometimes it's the personality

Sometimes is's the body

if you're lucky, it's both...

I agree to not let it matter as much if a woman claims she wants to be my friend. What are friends for?

Both

Personality if it encompasses empathy spirituality and character.

Okay, I’ll be frank. In my experience. The man gets attracted to the body first. And that’s because the body is sexy.

However, getting to know the lady might keep the energy up or turn it off completely. So if the personality can turn off or amplify the former.. maybe that means the personality is way more sexy.

Just a thought

Well pointed ! totally agree !!

beauty attracts ....personality keeps




most of sex is in your own mind

That's up to each person. We all have different things that make others attractive to us. For me it's intelligence and being funny. I don't think about good looks at all because that's an automatic instinctual reaction. I.e., we can't help whom we're attracted to.

Ok, so I am an absolute sapiosexual guy, and I’m bound, as such, to say her thoughts are the sexier of the two, but sadly, one without the other is usually less than FULLY sexy, if you can see that? Although I would prefer to be a good feminist and say I NEED the thought part, but a good body with a pleasing smile to help me believe that she is a kind and decent person, ergo I am perfectly capable of being fully turned on and fulfilled by porn.
However, if I am calling the shots all of the time, I choose the both of them!

Neither. Her intellect