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I was over at my girlfriend of one month house tonight, we watched some television and just sat. She is very smart and talks a lot. I don't talk much at all, never have been much of a conversationalist. She tries to get me to talk, but I just don't know what to say. She got upset because I won't talk, and I am worried she will want to break up with me for it, I want this relationship to work, I really like this girl a lot.
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Then engage in conversation hon
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I try
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I've just always been afraid that people aren't interested in what I say
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I'm not that smart
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If she's interested in you, which if she's your girlfriend, she must be, then she's interested in what you have to say!
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you are to smart. Just say whats on your mind if she cares she will listen
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time to kick up the effort a notch.
the only way you are going to get better at communication is to start doing it more |
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ask her questions.......be interested in her.......talk about your life growing up, work, friends.......talk about your pets, your scratch on your leg.........the movie you want to watch.....the possibilities are endless......
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Just don't talk about that growth on the back of your neck. That's what doctors are for
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joint counseling?
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she also said that when I talk my conversations are one or two sentences and that really upset her.
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start it of simple tell her your hopes, fears, likes, dislikes.
just start talking if she dont like it she will let you know when there has been enough talk. if your lucky she will tell you by just kissing you |
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Yeah talk about your dreams and what you like...or...since you dont talk, make out, lol
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she won't kiss me
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and I think that is why she won't kiss me
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 i thought shes your girlfriend
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then time to talk
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ok step number one STOP being so negative.
that is a major turn off for women. |
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she is
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