PS. In my opinion, what you contribute to the threads over time tells way more about a person than the all about me part of their profile. Actions over time speak way louder than a one time look at a well thought out paragraph. I hope that I can never describe myself in one paragraph. I finally added more to the one line that I had and not even sure why I did that......

Listening to me (not reading ABOUT me) is the only true way to know who I am...

But thanks for sharing everything that you did

I find it amusing at times that some focus on what they are looking for physically rather than the character of the individual. You really don't know what kind of "wrapping" your precious gift is going to come in. I can't lie and say that I don't have a preference for shorter women with meat on their bones and a librarian type look to them. However, if I met a six foot woman who had some of the characteristics I was looking for, I surely wouldn't turn her away. Yes, looks do matter but again it's the total package that ultimately counts, isn't it?

Hey mistyblue2012,

I agree with you about the postings on the forums. There is a certain individual who shall remain nameless that posts a negative comment every time a subject is brought up. This is the same person that complains about not getting any responses.

I looked at your profile and I must say it kicks ass. Your one paragraph was so direct and to the point but it gave a glimpse of your personality. Your profile is also a good example of one of those who has a ton of photos but each and everyone shows a different aspect of your life. Like I mentioned before, none of what I posted is the "law" about your profile. I just thought some of the things I mentioned might be a good start for those frustrated new members. I am new myself but I have had some pretty good luck with this site and I am very grateful for that.