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What advice??
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Any ladies out there that have any advice for me on how to approach someone I find attractive? Welp I'm not a girl (obviously haha) but I have a small amount of tips. Of course online dating is different from in person. Typically you have more "competition" and less potential matches. Therefore when you discover a profile here that you think has the potential for a relationship, you have to make an impressive, otherwise she'll move on to the next one. That part I find hard because its extremely difficult to let your natural personality flow through an online website. This might sound weird but I'd consider that you make a female profile so that you can see the male profiles and see which ones are connecting and which ones aren't. If there are many profiles that seem and feel similar to yours (similar bio, same initial messages etc) than that might be your reason for struggling. Most importantly, I'd say for you to be yourself. People may not be initially romantically attracted to you, but they will respect your honestly, if you make the initial effort to show it. Be genuine and don't be afraid to throw yourself out there and fail. I hope you do well, cheers my man very well said 
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Hello dunno  I was going to ask you what your usual approach would be .. laughing .. but I am not sure mingle is ready to hear it  A couple of obvious suggestions .... Online refer to her user name .. (until she is happy to tell you her name) . Avoid all the stereotypical comments .. hi beautiful .. hi sexy etc Read her profile and show her that you have read it . Put aside all the sexual energy you may feel when you look at her picture .. the goal initially is to connect intellectually .. it is okay to pay her a compliment but be genuine and try not to focus on the physical ... .. Humour is always a good icebreaker... Be respectful .. if she says she is not interested. Accept it and end the conversation politely . Easy peasy .., best of luck grasshopper  Crystal clear sis
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LMAO!!!! Facts!!!
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hahaha
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Any ladies out there that have any advice for me on how to approach someone I find attractive? Are you approaching them with your shirt lifted up like on your picture? I mean, that is something I would not do. How do you present yourself in public? What are you currently doing? Anything? Is what you are doing not working? If so, why not? Maybe you're using a bad approach. Just start off with hey, how are you doing and smile. Think of a question that does not allow for a yes or no answer. For ex., ask her what she does for work. That could lead to a conversation that gives both of you a chance to get a feel for each other. If things are going well, ask her to go get coffe, ice cream, anything casual. Offer to give you her number. If you ask for hers, you take the chance of her saying no. |
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To start off, don't pull up your shirt. No kidding! |
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Any ladies out there that have any advice for me on how to approach someone I find attractive? I gave you advice on approaching a woman in public since you didn't clarify. Should still be helpful. |
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Here is a suggestion, hope it is helpful... Talk about a topic that is interesting to you. If it is also interesting to her then you get to talk more and know about one another. You may need also to change your picture and do a close up photo instead.
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And I meant a close up photo of your face and not other parts of your body lol
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