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Topic: Need a little help
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Sat 12/22/07 12:22 AM
Edited by Jistme on Sat 12/22/07 12:23 AM
It is so much more simple then all that... and already mentioned in this thread.

LISTEN

If she ain't talking...ask questions.

Not just listen with your ears either. Pay attention. To the point you can tell her what color her eyes are the next day.. Where her left hand was placed 3 minutes ago.. What her pets names are... How old her siblings and/or children are... Etc...

If you have to work at it? Chances are you are with the wrong person. You are spending to much time listening too the voices in your own head...

Listening is a dying art.

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Sat 12/22/07 12:30 AM

Ok but not other people......thats gossiping!!!noway noway noway Talking about other "things" may be a better way of putting it.....like the weather, or the state of the defecit, or even the fact that Lindsey lohan may be a lesbian but since were not friends we can talk about her....laugh laugh laugh

hmm looks like i sent the wrong message

Pickup Artists tell this thing called a "DHV story" that oftentimes involve one of more of their friends in the story, but he isn't saying anything bad about them... in fact he is saying very good things about them. I have one of my own that elaborates on how I would invite my really awesome friend to live with me in a mansion if I ever bought one because of this incredible favor he did for me one day.

As for people you aren't friends with, it's all fair game. There are little games and routines a pickup artist runs that may involve reading the body language of other people in the room as a game to play with his date.

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