Topic: Rate me please
AustinL's photo
Sat 12/19/20 07:52 AM
If anyone could rate my profile by how legit it seems and if it appears interesting, i,d appreciate it.

delightfulillusion's photo
Sat 12/19/20 08:25 AM
The majority of members here haven’t upgraded so no need to state that you can’t see who liked you. As for asking us to message you on Instagram or ask for your phone number to find out more about you.....is not going to happen. There is a section in your profile to tell us about yourself so why don’t you do just that instead of asking us to contact you on another social media platform. The definition of profile is ‘a short article giving a description about a person or organisation’ so write about yourself and who you’re looking for. Save giving out your phone number for when you get to know someone for a bit here first.

teckelandtortie's photo
Sun 12/20/20 09:10 AM
I agree with delightfulillusion, asking right away for contact outside the profile is suspect as that is what many scammers do, so my advice is to not state that in your profile or ever after the first bit of communication, it is a red flag as many members can attest. Describe what you like and what you seek in a woman. Don't discuss what you can afford or not. If there is mutual simpatico over time with someone then other contact can be made. Your photos are good, I would add another headshot with you smiling like the first one. You have a nice smile....emphasize that.