Topic: 'about me' section choice?
WickedLeila 's photo
Fri 10/22/21 09:30 PM
:warning:⛔warning!⛔:warning: I got carried away & long winded! it's a bit of a read ahead that I just let flow and can wind down if that's the better choice!

how interesting! I'd def like to take advantage of the opportunity for a rating because I never know how I'm coming across or which route is better for the about me section? I'd appreciate your opinion on which one to go with or how they come across or any feedback at all really between the one currently in my profile and the one below.

thank you!!

L

my alternative about me goes something like:

I'm a quiet reserved introvert at heart so please excuse any awkwardness at first. I may be a bit of a weirdo, but not nearly as much as I may present myself at first.

I'm entering a new phase in my life, reluctantly, unfortunately, though it'll be good when the dust settles.

What am I here for? Hmm. Good question. I'm open, really. No specific target to aim for (except the some with the big red bullseye because shopping and I go way back. ha! it would be great to find someone, male or female, of like mind, laid back, drama free, semi-lost soul who wants to go on random day trips, or just sit at home doing nothing or doing something. doesn't matter because we have the kind of chemistry that is comfortable enough to sit in silence or the opposite of that (whatever that may be?). my hope is for this person to give and receive brutal honesty and the respect that accompanies that, enjoy big long winded animated conversation about lofty abstract topics or about nothing. we can bounce off one another and get to new personal levels when we get in the zone. something easy, no expectations except for kindness, compassion always. my personality, I've learned, does best with openness, free flowing communication, good or bad topics, just get it out!! who disagrees with me civilly and with understanding. so many words yet so and vice versa, from my intended message. & I could continue forever.

I basically just want a friend, hopefully more, who's company I enjoy who I can do something or nothing with who is nice and truly cares for me as a person that won't act out of spite or throw out mixed messages who values openness of all kinds and wants to support me and be there for me and will let me do the same for them.

some passion and cuddles in the bedroom is quite necessary for the "and more" (:wink:) part of the relationship. and I've been told, passion is sort of my thing if you're the person and you're stirring the right electricity in me. mmm

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wow ok yeah that got suuuuuuper long I'm sorry. that's sort of my forte! 🤦‍♀️ I'm not this 'much' in person or conversation. I promise!!

Devo1974's photo
Fri 10/22/21 11:02 PM
I can't say i actually read it but was impressed by it's longness. Surprised to find out longness is a word. I thought i made it up. Crap, now I'm disappointed i didn't make it up. Life sucks

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Sat 10/23/21 03:11 AM
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Welcome To Mingle2.
All The Best :thumbsup:

Larsi666 😽's photo
Sat 10/23/21 03:55 AM
A very decent start waving :thumbsup:

cleve's photo
Sat 10/23/21 04:26 PM
the problem that friends, and couples have is how ''they behave

towards each other'' it either creates problems or avoids

problems....relax pick people who have a capacity to be empathetic

towards others and you will be o.k. it really helps when we have

empathy for our selves...what i mean is the ability to understand

and get in touch with our own feelings...good luck...p.s. you can

have or not have a lot of things in a relationship to have a

healthy one there must be empathy for each other.....

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Sat 10/23/21 04:45 PM
Anyone can choose to read and rate Leia's profile.