Topic: is it is it?
JamesHasNoOne's photo
Tue 01/22/08 12:19 AM
dating its just a big game isnt it? i have never been on one but i bet thats what it is like am i wrong? if so how would you prove me other wise.Love is some thing that i will never acheive in my life i think at this point right now.

peachiegirl28's photo
Tue 01/22/08 12:21 AM
no it isnt just a big game....love is not something that comes easily....you have to have a little more confidence in yourself sweetie...a woman is attracted to confidence...your a sweetheart....you shouldnt doubt yourself...it will happenflowerforyou bigsmile

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Tue 01/22/08 12:23 AM

no it isnt just a big game....love is not something that comes easily....you have to have a little more confidence in yourself sweetie...a woman is attracted to confidence...your a sweetheart....you shouldnt doubt yourself...it will happenflowerforyou bigsmile


SOME games can be fun though :wink:

JamesHasNoOne's photo
Tue 01/22/08 12:23 AM
i am really shy and just laid back dont say much

april_a9's photo
Tue 01/22/08 12:23 AM
First, I would say that an attitude adjustment would do wonders!
Your screen name alone would make anyone think twice about talking to you. Even if you don't feel confident, fake it! I truly believe you would have better luck if you weren't so down on yourself ohwell

sexxyandsingle's photo
Tue 01/22/08 12:25 AM
Love will make you or break you

JamesHasNoOne's photo
Tue 01/22/08 12:26 AM
yeah but i cant change my screen name unless i make a whole new one

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Tue 01/22/08 12:27 AM

yeah but i cant change my screen name unless i make a whole new one


make a new one and post - we'll know ya

april_a9's photo
Tue 01/22/08 12:27 AM
I would say make a whole new one then! Seriously, I would see that, and skip right over it

sexxyandsingle's photo
Tue 01/22/08 12:28 AM
Your scree name is fine people aren't gonna judge by your name just jump in on the forumz put some confidence in that train of thought and im sure you will be fine

peachiegirl28's photo
Tue 01/22/08 12:29 AM


no it isnt just a big game....love is not something that comes easily....you have to have a little more confidence in yourself sweetie...a woman is attracted to confidence...your a sweetheart....you shouldnt doubt yourself...it will happenflowerforyou bigsmile


SOME games can be fun though :wink:




i agree:wink: :tongue:

Suzanne20's photo
Tue 01/22/08 12:31 AM

I would say make a whole new one then! Seriously, I would see that, and skip right over it


Ditto...self-confidence is very attractive

no photo
Tue 01/22/08 12:41 AM
All right brother... I read some of your posts and came up with this:

1) The girls are right about the self confidence thing
2) Expand a little further out than Plant FL
3) slow down on the "I need to find a girlfriend and need a date"
4) Talk more about your positives and what you enjoy to do.

Maybe e-mail one of the women on here and they can give you some one on one pointers without making it public.

darkowl1's photo
Tue 01/22/08 12:46 AM
you can really do this, it's hard at first, but gets easier, and you really do make good friends here, if you choose, it may mean a love connection later for you, you have to give other people a chance to talk to you, so they can find that special part of you that you both like, good luck, you are making a fine start by hosting a post-

darkowl1's photo
Tue 01/22/08 12:50 AM
your pic is good, and you're happy, that is a big plus. act like your picture!bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile